Marriage & Divorce - 9 June 2006

2006-06-09 17:12:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote my husbands resume found him a job and took him to work everyday. I nursed him back to health after he was in the icu two weeks ago. Amoung other things like cleaning his clothes and paxking his lunch and cooking etc. This week he left me for the secretary at work. He has not called. He is living with her now. He calls and tells me that he does not want me to put him on child support or alimony. He wants to give me money when he feels like it. He want to be able to walk into the house we shared anytime he pleases. But I can not know wherer he lives. I am like wtf? He says if I don;t agree he will leave the country and i won't get anything and our daughter won't see him ever. What would you do?

2006-06-09 17:01:49 · 23 answers · asked by Negrita 2

2006-06-09 17:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have a different set of friends. I go and do stuff w/ his friends, but he is hesitant to do alot with mine. He wants us to both just go and do what we want with each of our friends and be together when we are not. I am afraid we will start to grow apart after a while. Is anyone else in this situation?

2006-06-09 16:58:56 · 20 answers · asked by ms06 2

2006-06-09 16:57:24 · 14 answers · asked by alice o 1

2006-06-09 16:42:20 · 20 answers · asked by James W 2

2006-06-09 16:37:14 · 15 answers · asked by bambitattoo 1

the baby was found with pot in system.children srevices is involved.what is the fathers rights and how would he go about getting full custody?we live in ohio.how much does it cost and how hard is it for a father to get full custody?they are not married.please only serious answers please.

2006-06-09 16:32:37 · 8 answers · asked by dreammer 1

Need some good one's, I have ran out of ideas. Did a search here and found a few good one's but want some even better one's. Perverted is okay!! ;-) They can't be too long either since my mans' phone does not display all of a message if it's too long.

2006-06-09 16:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by maryannmccarthy2003 6

2006-06-09 16:27:54 · 14 answers · asked by David G 1

I found some e-mails of a conversation between my fiance and another woman. These e-mails contained the words "I Love You" and they also contained photos of himself. I confronted him about the e-mails and he told me that he was talking to this woman as a favor for a friend.

I have found several unknown numbers and text messages in his cell phone. He tells me these text messages, that have included things like, "why do you put me through this...why don't you get some from your g?" And he swears the text messages come from his sister.

He gets very defensive if I ask him about the text messages and he tells me that none of these things are my business...We are planning on getting married in a year...What should I do? Do you think these are definate signs that he is cheating?

2006-06-09 16:20:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

solid evindence.All you had was she is a female at work that is kinda friendly towards him and then she was also the female he went to a park with to vent to ne day cause she was there when he was checking his schedule and then she just asked him how he was doing and then he just started pouring his heart out cause he needed to real bad cause he was mad.And you also knwo the only reason yoru husband didnt tell you is cause he knew you would totally freak and go off on his *** so he just kept it from you and of course i found out anther way.Even though i have no solid proof but my gut tells me different ,should i just leave it alone or go with my gut and just leave?

2006-06-09 16:13:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

And can you really keep my dirty little secret??? OK yes it was just the song I was hearing just now...........

2006-06-09 16:10:13 · 3 answers · asked by ****** 2

2006-06-09 16:08:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

And justify your answer...

***No "Its a sin"***

2006-06-09 15:57:55 · 46 answers · asked by Amanda 2

Yes a great age difference,,but we really seem to hit it off. Do any of you know of such a relationship? Now we are friends,,,my flirtations are welcome and I want more. Opinions?

2006-06-09 15:56:04 · 17 answers · asked by garrisonjj 1

2006-06-09 15:55:59 · 25 answers · asked by valeryje 1

2006-06-09 15:52:59 · 6 answers · asked by a&d 2

I"m trying not to push but it's hard because I know he is hurting. I asked what is wrong and he said it's work stuff. He went for a run but it didn't help. So I told him to go see his friend because he can talk to her better then me. He hasn't gone to her yet but I am worried that he just won't talk to me.. what should I do keep pushing or just ignore him ?

2006-06-09 15:42:12 · 10 answers · asked by moonspawnhotmailcom 2

2006-06-09 15:36:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see so many posts about married people cheating, my kids all have friends whose parents cheated or got divorced and kids are growing up in single parent homes....I don't get it. I married my husband because I love him and respet him. If there is a problem in our marriage we talk it out...What is going on?

Why does it seem that this is now the exception and not the rule.

2006-06-09 15:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-09 15:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by alicia g 2

I have been wondering, and wanting to be married since I was a little girl. I went through a terrible relationship and had two beautiful children with a man who I never legally married. four years after we split, I find myself engaged to a man who also has children. We have dated for a Year and are somewhat compatible and communicate well and rarely fight. my kids love him and I his kids. but I feel the urge to stay single and keep dating, even though he gives all the attention and affection I need. I feel wrong, and yet at the same time I am itching to get married, and cant wait to go get the dress. we get along, and everyone is so attatched. is 24 just too young to be married? is it cold feet? is he "not the one"?

2006-06-09 15:27:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my boyfriend went to prison a yr and 3 months ago for drugs and stealing things to get drugs. I know that he has been clean for the past year and 3 months and many have flat out told me that it is easier to get drugs in prison than it is out of prison...while he was in prison i gave birth to our son who will be a year on June 20th. And my boyfriend will be home June 14th. I want to be with him and I want to marry him but i am having a hard time deciding how long i should wait before we get married, or look into buying a home together. I truly believe that if he didnt care and prison wasnt an eye opener he would have been doing drugs in there. Can anyone give me advice. And please dont say leave him because thats not a good idea unless he screws up again. I just need advice on how long i should wait to get married etc. I would like to have another child with him as well. And I would like to maybe be pregnant by the end of this yr. Im just confused and dont know what to do. Thanks

2006-06-09 15:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is a recovering addict and just finished 30 day Rehab in FL. He is staying in Florida and has started a new job and has a huge support team there and a great sponsor. I am home in CT with my 2 kids (ages 15 & 5). He would like for me to move to FL to start a new life with him. I love him very much, and I don't know what to do.

2006-06-09 15:20:46 · 26 answers · asked by Rmb2000 1

2006-06-09 15:20:22 · 2 answers · asked by fabfourfanmusicfan 1

for the last 6 mths i have been craving male attention. other than my husband. idk y. our sex life is spectacular. he is very attentive to my needs. he is really a great guy. we've been married 20 yrs but i don't think it's boredom. we try new things all the time. i don't want to do anything with these other guys. i don't even fantasize about other guys, i just want them to pay attention to me and maybe flirt a little. wats wrong with me? i've never felt this way b4.

2006-06-09 14:55:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-09 14:31:52 · 50 answers · asked by L.Green 1

My husband's ex keeps phoning me at work and today she came in and I called security. They suggested she leave and after a little coersing she left only to inform people as she went out all the nasty things about her ex. Now, I met my husband after he was divorced from her. No matter what the details are I don't think I deserve to be harassed by her. Give me some advice please!

2006-06-09 14:28:49 · 18 answers · asked by peppermint_paddy 7

2006-06-09 14:23:12 · 13 answers · asked by reader 1