I"m trying not to push but it's hard because I know he is hurting. I asked what is wrong and he said it's work stuff. He went for a run but it didn't help. So I told him to go see his friend because he can talk to her better then me. He hasn't gone to her yet but I am worried that he just won't talk to me.. what should I do keep pushing or just ignore him ?
2006-06-09 15:42:12 · 10 answers · asked by moonspawnhotmailcom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FIRST OF ALL DONT SEND YOUR HUSBAND TO ANOTHER FEMALE WHEN HE NEEDS SOMEONE TO TALK TO. YOU SHOULD JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE THERE FOR HIM WHENEVER HE IS READY TO TALK ABOUT WHAT IS BOTHERING HIM. JUST GIVE HIM A HUG. LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE CONCERNED. SIT NEXT TO HIM WHILE HE IS ON THE COUCH AND HOLD HIS HAND. JUST SHOW HIM THAT YOU ARE THERE FOR HIM.
2006-06-09 15:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you want him to talk to you of what bothers him, it is well if, the first time he ever does this you listen with approval no matter what he tells you. Don't try to solve it, or say anything that sounds like a criticism or a judgment. You can ask questions, but not judgmental ones. He's hurting. Men don't spill their feelings all over the place. If he knows whatever he says it is safe with you, he might talk.
2006-06-09 15:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont push and nag just be patient with him. Love him where he is at and pray for him and give him some time and space and let him know how much you love him and that when he is ready to talk you will be there for him when he is ready to talk and work things out! Is he open to counseling and do you know why he is hurting so much? I am here to talk anytime you want to talk!
2006-06-09 15:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my past experiences, I've learned that guys don't like to talk. They especially don't like to talk about personal things. I would let him know I am here if you want to talk, cuddle, ****, what ever. Then I would let him keep to himself, maybe he will come out to you later when hes not so emotional. And maybe you can get his mind off of it and do something with him.
2006-06-09 15:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by mini_may04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't push him off to a female "friend" when he is so vulnerable. Keep your mouth quiet & let him approach you. Men are different than women
2006-06-09 15:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people deal with stress in different ways he'a just dealing me and mine fight all the time its better then that he will talk when he gets ready just try to make is life as stress less as possible
2006-06-09 15:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by ember420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he hurting from? We need more details. But it not healthy that he can talk to another woman better than he can you.
2006-06-09 15:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a therapist or try to make him happy like a dinner or movie and then talk to him
2006-06-09 15:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by ashley olson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him,men don't like to talk
2006-06-09 15:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Corky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are there whenever he needs you. that's all you can do if you dont want to ignore him or be pushy.
2006-06-09 15:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by april_m_weese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋