My wife is German and she wants to go back to Germany to live with the 2 kids of ours. I want to stay in the United States, Don't get me wrong I loved Germany and wouldn't mind living there. However, I'm trying to start an online business up and that was my dream goal after I get out of the Army. I've always been making my decisions on what she wants. Once again I'm faced with the same predicament. It's not easy not seeing your kids anymore everyday compared to seeing them maybe 2 times a year the most. I talked to her about staying in the States and she wants to go back home. I don't want her to do something she doesn't want to do. However, I'm not going to either. I have serious career goals in my life I'm trying to pursue. It might seem selfish of me, but she always got her way in our marriage. I was that unselfish. Stay with my wife and kids 5 yrs. of marriage and grow old together and live day2day or goals of establishing myself and progressing in life, have fun working and $$!
2006-06-09
08:30:19
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Shawn J
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