I have been married for 11 yrs and have been finding myself wondering what it would be like to be intimate with other men. I just was wondering if this is normal or if my hormones were going crazy?
2006-06-09 07:47:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you were NOT doing this, I would think you were nuts! After 11 years, fantasy keeps things fresh. Go for it, keep it to yourself, and have a ball. There is NOTHING wrong with this, Anyone who says differently is either lying or have no idea of what they are talking about . We are not kids here! In fact, you might want to play some games with hubby...if he is a game player. If he is a square, missionary type, keep it to yourself. Good luck, and happy dreams!
2006-06-09 07:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
This is normal at times but not right and can lead to other things like cheating and adultery. Steer clear and get help for this! Do not even fantasize about this as it will only bring pleasure for the moment but there will be consequences down the road for the wrong decision if you choose to go that route. It will only bring pain and trouble and ultimately death and distruction to you marriage and relationship with your husband and there also is a possibility of unwanted pregnancies and STD's too. Think bvefore you act is all i am saying here.
2006-06-09 09:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, have u ever before this fantasied with Tom cruise , Brad Pitt or someone like this.... is the same thing maybe you are lacking something as long is u dont go head and do it is ok is only thoughts that wont hurt anybody dont u think??????
2006-06-09 07:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married also and I am always dreaming about my husband's friends and other guys that I think are fine I think it is normal because I do the same thing
2006-06-09 08:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is a difference between fantasizing and making it happen with other men. Where does this end is my question.
2006-06-09 11:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very normal too fantasize about other men.i od think maybe you need to spice up your relationship.I've been married for 20 yrs so i know what your goin through.
2006-06-09 07:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by tarheal1@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your interest is fading. Talk with your spouse not too forward on how he can be more appealing to you so you dont look for other channels to dream about other men.
2006-06-09 07:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Misha G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its typical to fantasize.....I don't care what anyone else says, they ALL think about what it would be like to hook up with someone else....thats part of life "wanting what you can't have" that is .....if you are true to your spouse or b/f and g/f.
2006-06-09 13:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by amazincajn_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a long term relationship and I dream about Keanu Reeves all the time. lol
2006-06-09 08:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Jen ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Talk to your husband about it. Who knows he could be interested in watching you with another man.
2006-06-09 07:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by badwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋