2006-06-09 10:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by rhalmil m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because when you put two imperfect people together disagreements and misunderstandings will happen. It is how you choose to work on it that makes the difference. If people want to fight and argue that is there choice especially if boht people are selfish and not selfless and giving. YOu have to be selfish and giving to make any relationship work out for the best. There will be alot less arguing and fighting this way and it has to be a 2 ways street. Treat the other person as you would want to be treated.
2006-06-09 10:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Baglady, if it is a good relationship, there should be very few arguments. Each person should be willing to let somethings go and take a minute before responding and think about what is about to be said, is the next statement really worth it? I was in a relationship with someone for 7 years and all we did was argue and fight. I am now married to my best friend and the only arguments we have are about politics. It is so nice to not have to be arguing all the time.
2006-06-09 18:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by dani_anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguments happen when one person wants to assert the supremacy of his/her point of view and the other person wants to do the same. Instead of being OK with different points of view, some people think they have to always be right, and so arguments ensue.
Other reasons for arguments:
- Hurt emotions can trick us into disconnecting the thinking part of our brain, so what we think, we automatically speak. When we are not upset, we may have better control, and are able to filter out some things.
- Couples who are not in a good place relationship-wise engage in arguing because of resentment and anger. When things are already bad, people have a lower tolerance for putting up with the crap.
Any other ideas?
2006-06-09 17:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Doom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are two different people with two different backgrounds and sometimes two different ways of looking at things. The thing that makes relationshisp REALLY work is the ability to compromise instead of arguing the point because you think you are right. Sometimes winning the battle isnt as important as long as you can win the war.
2006-06-09 18:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I think it's good in a way. Every time you argue you let each other know how you feel.......At least that's the way I see it in my marriage. With my previous marriage we never argued and one day he just bursted and left. I think my marriage now is better even though we argue all the time.
2006-06-09 17:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by yo_010180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be, if there is, get a new relationship.
2006-06-09 18:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it keeps it fresh. You always wanna hate your partner a very tiny bit.
2006-06-09 17:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Chewie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you argue more than anything else.... it isn't a relationship.
Try someone else.
2006-06-09 17:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Chicago S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You care about what the other person thinks.
2006-06-09 17:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There don't have to be. It depends on the type of person you are with.
2006-06-09 17:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋