Marriage & Divorce - 10 June 2006

I dont know what to get him any ideas?
He doesnt really have any hobbies im stuck!!!

2006-06-10 23:30:36 · 15 answers · asked by kris 4

I have no idea what to do. For 4 years of our marriage I have never been satisfied (although before the wedding he did a good job always), and during these 4 years we have sex 1 time in a month (that's a lucky year!), right now - it has been 1 month and 3 weeks. Everything is fine in the family, except sex. I hate this so much. I talked to him hundred times. He says he always is ready, but it's my fault - I don't want to, or I don't have time, etc. That is not true though. Just last night I was waiting for him, he came into the bedroom, I started coming on him, but he turned to the wall and fell asleep. I am desperate. I do not know what is going on. I am a good-looking, nice and attractive. Is he cheating on me? I am so tired of this. It would be much easier if he would say - hey, I cheat on you. Or - hey, I don't love you. I am really thinking about a divorce. I can't live like that...Please, I need your opinion. This is going on for all 4 years (we dated for 2 years bef. wedding).

2006-06-10 22:55:46 · 33 answers · asked by Cristy 1

2006-06-10 22:38:58 · 24 answers · asked by joe 2

We had a major fight a few months back, and she asked for a divorce. But yesterday I had a talk with her father that I would like to have her back, and today she called saying that she wants to discuss the whole matter. Now I dont know what she has in mind or what she wantes to tell me, but I want to let her know that I still love her and would love to have her back. She always wanted to have a car but we didnt have the cash, and I just found a good second hand car for sale with a good price. Would that be a good gift to surprise her with? Or do you guys recommend something better or maybe more sentimental? Any help is appreciated, thanks!

2006-06-10 22:34:01 · 10 answers · asked by Zwerg 3

2006-06-10 22:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by martin k 1

2006-06-10 22:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by popo l 1

I have a good reason to be jealous because my ex-husband (he left me 6 months ago) has a girlfriend. It absolutely kills me to think of it and I'm not sure I can go on. How do I get past this? Anyone been in the same situation? I don't want to hear anything about her. Is this good or bad?

2006-06-10 21:53:45 · 8 answers · asked by Lotte T 3

2006-06-10 21:13:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-10 21:10:15 · 13 answers · asked by Sue B 1

My fiance is very proud of my virginity and so am I. Whether or not other people have sex before they are married is not my personal business (let's please not discuss that), but I really wish then that they would at least do me a favor and not ruin the traditional meaning of the white wedding dress. It's like wearing a gold metal when you have not won first place.

2006-06-10 21:08:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-10 20:55:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's no maturity gap and we have a strong emotional connection, romance and most importantly commitment. He's employed and I'm still a student, but I'm getting into the same field he is in and we share many of the same interests. I see no problems, do you?

2006-06-10 20:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is inlove with a turkish boy and has been going out with him for a long time, however his parents took him to turkey and forced him to marry a turkish girl so that she can get a passport to the uk. now that they are back in the uk , he refuses to sleep with his turkish wife, they constantly beat him up and his mother is a bit loony, she bit him and spat at him and tried to stab him with a skewer, she has threatened his life if he does not do as he is told, they have taken all his ID, passport, bank cards away from him and he has no money, what can he do? He will not go to the police as he respects them. he is 21. They know where my daughters flat is so they cannot stay there as she is being threatened, how can he get a quick divorce?

2006-06-10 20:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anne A 2

cheating or not ?

2006-06-10 20:37:08 · 24 answers · asked by wildchild042377 1

I do not agree gays and there ways but someone here thinks I do.
I just hate the fact that the school system has allowed this gay is okay crap to enter into it.
WHY?
School is for math and spelling and science and gym, why do they have to theach this **** in school?
Learn it where I learned it, by friends.
Also to psychology...almost all of the gay ppl I know are bitter like you, why is that, let me guess because of ppl like me, right?
Sorry but ppl like me arent the reason you hated yourself as a child, it was because you knew it wasnt normal!

2006-06-10 20:23:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if my spouse was to pass,i would not remarry.i would live as if i was still married...my spouse is my soul mate and i would not want to meet him in heaven one day and have to share a house with him and my other husband...know what i mean???

i just couldnt do that...my husband is my husband until i die...
(but i am in no way judging anyones choices! if you would remarry i completely understand...its just a personal choice!

2006-06-10 20:22:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

he excuses me of cheating several times a day, everyday. i never have. he calls me names and makes me feel awful. when i leave he is all sweet to me and tries to get me to come back and ahen i do its the same thing. everybody tells me to leave him and that he'll never change. i just dont know?

2006-06-10 20:13:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my wife very much, and I tell her that, but she is always saying I love you, way to much, we have been married 5 great years and I hope we have many more years together. I guess what I am trying to say is that by saying it to much can it lose the affect in a way. Or it might just be me?

2006-06-10 19:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by dawg_rd 1

2006-06-10 19:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by monie2579 1

No one ever thinks of the beautiful little boy or girl that could be if ya just didnt have an abortion. How come some people still believe its not human or alive or a person?
It doesnt have the same chromosomes as you, so in turn it has its own and when you have an abortion you have just killed an unborn human being, but alot of people still think its a ball of cells.
I dont get how someone could have an abortionfor a selfish reason (non medical) I mean you are destroying the most amazing thing that could be in your life!

2006-06-10 19:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-10 19:40:23 · 17 answers · asked by davidgloria111 1

Both people say they are in love. However the issue of marriage revolves around getting married right away. No sponsor means one has to leave the country right away.

Cant they just stay as fiancee??

2006-06-10 19:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its wrong and you know it is! There is nothing normal about two men ******* or two women *******!
The parts dont fit, you idiots!
Man was for women as women was for man...dont kid yourself!
YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS WRONG, AND YOU KNOW ITS NOT RIGHT SO YOU PARADE AROUND AND LET EVERYONE KNOW YOU ARE A GAY OR LES SO YOU FEEL LESS ASHAMED OF IT. IT IS NOT RIGHT...remember what happened to Sodom and Gomorah???
IMMORAL SICK ****, LEWD AND TWISTED SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IS NOT RIGHT!
It just isnt!

2006-06-10 19:25:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

perfectly normal, two women for one man is acceptable and normal, having mutliple partners before marriage is okay and there is nothing wrong with it. That alot of people think its okay to be a slut or whore.
I do not want my kid to grow up thinking this IMMORAL TRASH is right. Am I the only one who thinks this????
Old fashion morals never got anyone killed, beaten and life was nicer that way!

2006-06-10 18:59:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Example, everyone's down an Angelina Jolie but she's not the one who vowed to "love, honor and cherish; forsaking all others." Ol' Brad the one who broke his marriage promise. Not Jolie. If Angie came on to him, it's his responsibility to say 'no." But he didn't. He's the home wrecker. Why aren't more people giving him crap?

2006-06-10 18:47:12 · 13 answers · asked by anonymous 2

2006-06-10 18:40:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love the most my boy friend. n mu fiancee z not that guy. whom i love the most, i m feeling that itz just a secrifisation nothing else, so plz tell me wat to do..?

2006-06-10 18:37:54 · 9 answers · asked by anu_32001 1

he's totally adorable and I know he likes me it's just a matter of should I pursue this relationship or not? b/c I don't want to come out and say: I have the hotts for your brother...I actually don't want her to know at all...

2006-06-10 18:29:47 · 17 answers · asked by smartstuff 3

her. Now she is a christine she ask God to forgive her but she never confess it to him because she no he will leave her.Should she tell him the truth even though if he find out he will never forgive her. they are now separated of what he think he no.

2006-06-10 18:28:02 · 4 answers · asked by JMMS2006 1

2006-06-10 18:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by hartsmostwanted 1