if my spouse was to pass,i would not remarry.i would live as if i was still married...my spouse is my soul mate and i would not want to meet him in heaven one day and have to share a house with him and my other husband...know what i mean???
i just couldnt do that...my husband is my husband until i die...
(but i am in no way judging anyones choices! if you would remarry i completely understand...its just a personal choice!
2006-06-10 20:22:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not sure what I would do,if God sent me the right man down the road, I guess I would remarry. P.S I have been told that you were the one copying me and Mr crowley.
2006-06-11 15:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I was raised the same as you, if you lose your spouse to death, you shouldn't remarry, but divorce is a different story. But you never really know what can happen after your spouse dies, they wouldn't want you to spend your life alone, and would probably thank the other one when you got to heaven for taking care of you for them, as long as you are happy with the other one. There are always two sides to every story, and who knows you might meet someone your spouse sends to you, if they do, don't turn away their gift to you.
2006-06-11 04:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by tennessee_cherokee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might not remarry. It's hard to tell though. But I would like to think I would live the rest of my life quietly, gardening and such.
If my husband dies when he's young, I would be too busy tending the children and making a living.
It would be nice to have friends and companionship though. But another marriage? I don't think I could.
2006-06-11 04:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by ATerribleIdea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is important to make the most of your time while you are here amongst the living. I prefer companionship. I cannot say for sure that I would or would not. Most likely I would have a special someone, but I would probably not remarry.
2006-06-11 03:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that way until I was living with the loneliness and found out who I would be dealing with when I found the ones who were willing to share without marriage
In heaven I am told we wouldnt be married just souls
I have changed my mind
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-11 03:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not remarry. That is my choice. Have you talked it over with your husband, maybe he would want you to find someone else if something happened to him. It's hard to predict the future as to what we might or might not do. My best to you.
2006-06-11 10:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question...I realy don't know. I love my husband and feel that no one else could live up to him and it would be no use in trying to meet anyone after him BUT I would be young, if he were to die this early, so I can't imagine spending the rest of my life alone. What a tough situation.
2006-06-11 03:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REMARRY after a while if the right person came along, your dead man would want you happy right?
2006-06-11 03:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think I would go all psycho like flanders on the simpsons and still have the lump on their side of the bed and stuff!
2006-06-11 03:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so would that be a track home in the suburbs? to answer your question, no i wouldnt re marry, id just date young men.
2006-06-11 18:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋