My daughter is inlove with a turkish boy and has been going out with him for a long time, however his parents took him to turkey and forced him to marry a turkish girl so that she can get a passport to the uk. now that they are back in the uk , he refuses to sleep with his turkish wife, they constantly beat him up and his mother is a bit loony, she bit him and spat at him and tried to stab him with a skewer, she has threatened his life if he does not do as he is told, they have taken all his ID, passport, bank cards away from him and he has no money, what can he do? He will not go to the police as he respects them. he is 21. They know where my daughters flat is so they cannot stay there as she is being threatened, how can he get a quick divorce?
2006-06-10 20:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anne A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow tough one..mayb you could help out in some way by informing the police or something. Somone shouldnt be forced to marry someone and stick with them. For god sake, the guy is 21yrs old ..hes an ADULT..hes old enough to live his own life. I understand there are beliefs about arranged marriage but his parents must open their eyes and see that he is an adult now and should be living his own life and they should live their own too.
Try informing police or someone who might be able to help him out with out causing a big scene for the whole family. good luk
2006-06-10 20:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Evie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO TO THE POLICE... HE HAS NO REASON TO RESPECT THEM. Its the same as some dumb wife getting beaten up who says he loves me.
The is no cultutre just nices and nasties and heros... which are you?
Better still get a mob, smash down his door, get him out and show his family how abusers get treated in this country and get the press involved to be there to make an example of them...
2006-06-10 23:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to protect you daughter first
by going to the police and by going to the advice
beauro for the lad.
2006-06-10 23:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by technocase 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not going to the police he does not respect himself. If his parents are assaulting him he needs to report them.
2006-06-10 20:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Trish D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him a gun...some ammo and let nature take it's course.. there is nothing in this world worse than bully... unless its a bullying mother...seriously can't you help them "diasppear" new jobs new part of the country
2006-06-11 00:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you said he refuses to sleep with her so an unconsummated marriage can be annulled immediately Good luck
2006-06-10 23:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by andy f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your daughter to take knowledge of your question.
She will certainly see in what mess she will find herself .
2006-06-10 20:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by d260383 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg the poor lad i really dont know what to suggest apart from the police.....or even try the citizens advice ....i hope it all gets sorted out ...........
2006-06-11 06:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a liar or a coward... your daughter must be finish with him
2006-06-11 01:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by totsie t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect has limits as well,not where it threatens your life.Let him report them.
2006-06-10 20:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋