2006-06-10 18:40:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh God, what a messy situation. Look at it that way, if you really love her, you would not want to mess up her life cause love is not about selfishness, so just leave her in peace and keep your love in your heart if you can't beat it.
2006-06-10 18:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you mentioned you love your best friends wife, he's your best friend, but what exactly are you to him? What you should do is be a true friend and leave her alone. Find a "SINGLE" woman who is sweet. Trust me, she's not the only woman out there who is sweet. Don't attempt to wreck a marriage, I would say and a friendship, but it really doesn't sound like you are one.
2006-06-11 01:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - don't act on it. It's a fantasy. You want what you can't have. It's really not that unusual.
Try to live it in your mind - you want her because she is your best friend's wife. I am sure there is alot you do not know about either of them.
Imagine you tell your best friend and he flips. Then you tell her and she is flattered, but angry that you would attempt to detroy her marriage. Now you have lost two good friends.
Best advice - find yourself your own sweet woman.
2006-06-11 02:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be ultra happy for your friend and tell the Universe that you want one just like her. You can even tell them that you want one just like her and how lucky he is.
Really - the universe rewards right action. To try to be with this woman would ruin so many lives as to be bittersweet at best. Write down all the things that you love about this woman and tell God and the Universe that this is exactly what you want in a woman. That's how I got my man and it is remarkable how similar he is to my Mom's 3rd husband (that was partly what I wanted - a man like him).
2006-06-11 02:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not helpless. Just get over it and leave her alone. And I would go to your best friend and tell him. Then stop associating with them. You are being a coward by not telling him and continuing to be his bestfriend so you can see his wife.
Stop being cowardly and confess and let them alone.
2006-06-11 01:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Need an answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see loving someone is not a sin but wanting someone who belongs to someone else is. if she's sweet n a nice human being ppl r bound to get attracted towards her but try n distract urself. there r several sweet n nice females living on this planet n surely one of them is for u. just wait for her n dont let this momentary emotion spoil ur "best" frenz life. i know u wld wanna hear sth else at the moment but this that i've told u is wat i think is right. cheers!!
2006-06-11 02:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by tanya v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know its a sin so just back off. dont be the 3rd person in someone's life. take some other single sweet girl..
good luck!
2006-06-11 01:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by conchita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to forget about her.Don't come to her house anymore if you want to hangout with her husband go somewhere else.That might work but I know you have to see her.Try to meet other girls so maybe you will that that girl more than your bestfriends wife.
2006-06-11 01:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't love ... it is a cool feeling for her that is nothing like being married to her. Enjoy the good feeling but do nothing that would dishonor your friendship. Over time, you will find equilibrium.
2006-06-11 01:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to help you to find a girl who's just as sweet as her, she has friends, so net work with her.
2006-06-11 01:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋