2006-06-10 18:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by hartsmostwanted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, they're a joke - a farce. Meaningless, unless you add "until I find someone better or you really piss me off" at the end of just about every vow.
It's gotten to the point where marriage vows are akin to a football players contract - where you agree to play for a team for x amount of time, and then renegotiate everything all over again at some future date, often resulting in playing for another team. They call their negotiators agents, married people call them divorce lawyers - same job.
2006-06-11 06:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well the people that were marry back in the i would say the 1920 to 1970 it meant a lot to them there wedding vows.but after that nope it was a new area then thing started to change and people attitude stared to change and i think back then so did wedding vows.
2006-06-11 04:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have always meant something to me. They evidently didn't mean anything to my ex husband as he cheated almost the whole 21 years we were together (I found this out the last few months we were together). The vows mean everything to my fiance, just as they do me.
2006-06-11 02:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vows are very meaningful. You should honor your vows always, and not just wedding vows.
2006-06-11 02:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by doc_is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The vows are supposed to be words that describe how you feel about one another...so yes...if you truly feel that way about someone they should mean everything, and forever!
2006-06-11 01:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your word mean anything? If you promise me something and don't deliver, does it mean anything? That's up to the individual, trust comes before ALL things. If you have doubts about the person your engaged to as to weather or not their honest your surely doomed
2006-06-11 01:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.Obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They mean the same thing but people arent taking them seriously when they marry or they would work harder at marriage
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-11 01:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, the day that they're spoken.
However, memories tend to fog over verrrrrrry quickly, when reality step in!
2006-06-11 01:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people, their committment to each other and their dedication to God.
2006-06-11 06:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course yes!!!
2006-06-11 02:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by * wiSH * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋