i love the most my boy friend. n mu fiancee z not that guy. whom i love the most, i m feeling that itz just a secrifisation nothing else, so plz tell me wat to do..?
2006-06-10 18:37:54 · 9 answers · asked by anu_32001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what u can do is use english when asking a question
2006-06-10 18:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, you may try being an honest woman. your question is not clear to me but it appears that you have been cheating on your husband to be and you want someone to tell you it's alright. you shouldn't have a fiance and a b/f at the same time. that's the problem right there. I bet if you tell him what you have been up to, you wont have to wait until marriage to hurt him. jeez , you can learn this stuff from TV. the difference between right and wrong.
2006-06-11 01:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't love ur fiancee why did u get engaged to him? now also it is not too late. tell him what u feel about him.u will be spoiling three lives if u marry him .yours, his and the man whom you love. (hope the other man also loves u. the is no question of sacrifice in this matter. u have your choice to sacrifice your life but not other people's. if u marry whom u don't love you will be sacrificing his life & your lover's life also.
2006-06-11 01:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him tell him, why waste his and your time on something you know isnt true? You are being selfish by leading him on this far, and it would be even more selfish of you to lead him on into marriage when you aren't being honest with him. Sit down, tell him he truth, he won't like it at first, but it would be the best thing you did for yourself, and for him. Good luck!
PS. The longer you wait to do it, the harder it would be!
2006-06-11 01:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have 2 choices:
1. Tell him the truth....call off the wedding....and let him deal with it.
2. Keep deceiving him....go ahead with the wedding....then tell him the truth....and get a divorce.
HE IS MOST LIKELY GOING TO BE HURT EITHER WAY.
WHICH ONE DO YOU THINK IS THE BEST CHOICE ???
NOT EXACTLY "ROCKET SCIENCE" NOW....IS IT ???
2006-06-11 01:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by GOOD ANSWER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never marry someone you don't love or want to be with. It would only hurt him to know you did marry him with out loving him or wanting to be with him, and it can only end up bad.
2006-06-11 02:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ur in love with a guy who is not the one ur gonna marry ? well fallow ur heart
2006-06-11 01:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by losangledguirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off the wedding
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-11 01:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wat u r feeling about him is AFFECTION.....not ATTRACTION.And u r trying to dream that u can get everything that u want from ...him..
2006-06-11 01:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by manoj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋