2006-06-09 10:16:51 · 27 answers · asked by Eric 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im a virgin.So really dont get what all guys are saying!
2006-06-09 10:23:54 · update #1
Both sexes obviously enjoy orgasm.
But I think it's more instinctive for the man to push for his. It's not just a biological imperative (for reproduction, technically only the man has to get there).
I think a woman in general takes much more pleasure in just the sheer act of intimacy and feeling desirable to someone. Yes, the orgasm is great, but it's also great to just be there and be that close to someone. It's a real emotional connection. Guys can be a little more... well... carnal about the whole thing. :)
Again, both sexes can enjoy orgasm and closeness. I'm just saying the woman can find a lot of emotional pleasure in the sex act, regardless of whether she climaxes.
BTW, I would not say that "most women don't get orgasm." They might have more difficulty or take a longer time than men (and thus the guy finishes first and she never gets a shot at it), but I don't think your statement is accurate.
It just takes a little longer for a woman to get used to and comfortable with her body; and often how she feels about herself and her desirability has a lot to do about whether she can climax easily.
2006-06-09 10:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jennywocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women dont have an orgasm EVERYTIME they have sex, but to say they never do is very untrue :0) And if a woman is NEVER having and orgasm then I think the man she is with needs some training!! But on the occasion that a woman doent have one sometimes just the intimacy is enough to be satisfied.
2006-06-09 10:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by dumbunny33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young, I thought that I had to have an orgasm everytime I had sex or else it wasn't worth it. My fiance has shown me different. I don't orgasm every time and I still enjoy it. If I don't have one, then I tell him that next time it's my turn, and guess what--it happens! I am having one about every other time, and we make love about every other day. I don't mind not having one every time because I am pleasing my man and because it feels so good.
Saying that most women don't orgasm isn't accurate. If I were you, I would think about this and find out for yourself before generalizing 'most women.'
2006-06-09 11:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at first when I had sex I didn't get anything out of it, until i was around 19. I got sick of sex until I had a orgasm and then I understand why men liked it. I don't know how a woman does it for year with her man if she don't get a orgasm it would be depressing. I couldn't have sex with out a orgasm, it would get old and boring.
2006-06-09 10:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must be one of the lucky ones...I'm multi-orgasmic and a squirter! If your woman isn't having an orgasm, maybe you should talk to her and see if there's some experimenting the two of you could do (toys, movies, different lubes, etc) to get her to that point. Take your time and be patient with her. Some women take a while to "get there".
2006-06-09 11:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you say that? When a woman has a warm rush of fluids coming from her then you know she has had an orgasm.. Unless you are going in and out 1-2 your done, then sham on you, don't waist her time. MAYBE you haven't made love to a woman yet!!!
2006-06-09 10:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman doesn't orgasm during sex, it's because she's got a very selfish man that's not good at sex. If a man knows what he's doing,a woman can have multiple orgasms. Women can just keep it coming.
2006-06-09 10:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't orgasm during sex until i met the right person for me
i "went for it" because i bought into the lie that we are feeding our young girls which is that if you choose to sleep with a guy you have power over the relationship. but really we are just giving a part of ourselves away that we can never get back and never share with the person we want to be with forever.
2006-06-11 08:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by dharma_claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finger the g spot furiously (or use a g spot viberator), masterbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a power viberator on your clit). Maybe have an object in your a-nus. You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed. G spot is inside top wall of vagina.
2006-06-15 15:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to that crap above. Fact is.. There are lots of women who can't orgasm from plain" man on top " position..So what? You have to be creative if your woman is like this.. Saying women don't orgasm during sex is ridiculous!!!!
2006-06-09 10:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋