please explain your story
2006-06-09 08:07:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll speak for my husband/
He said, " No" ~ I love my wife.
2006-06-09 08:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Paige 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sure, and so do women. Tell me women don't fantasize about the guy they saw at the gym or Brad Pitt..or an old boyfriend.
But men are wired a bit differently than women (to say the least) I believe most women equate sex with love. Few will have sex with a man unless they feel some kind of emotional connection.
But I also feel that man see sex as a full-contact sport. They enjoy it, they get off on it and get a lot out of it, but they can do it without feeling. So when a man says, "she means nothing to me", he's actually telling the truth.
Now this doesn't excuse infidelity, just explains part of it. A real man thinks before he makes a decision that could hurt a lot of people...
But the thought itself...I feel they're basically harmless UNLESS they're all too frequent. Then I say it's a sign that there are problems or something is missing from the relationship...
2006-06-09 15:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by chairman_of_the_bored_04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I think everyone does ... men and women. I have actually taken it past the thought. I am married with 3 kids. I haven't had an affair in about 4 or 5 years but I still see women that I would go beyond just the thought with. Does my wife know? Certainly not!
2006-06-09 15:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. There isn't enough space and time to tell you my story. Lets just say that it was my desire to look and think about being with women that led me to meet my wife. If I stopped doing that, then I'd not be the person that I am. If the desire dies for other women, then it will surely die for her. Gotta keep it up.
2006-06-09 16:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by vmmhg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!! Of course! I would guess that just about 100% of the men have thought about it at one time or another.
2006-06-09 15:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by mrchat1951 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Attraction is a strong biological and emotional reaction; especially when there is chemistry. On some level, I think it is normal. There is of course the betrayal of trust, but attraction is attraction and the two are really not related. It's really on him, not you...
2006-06-09 15:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think anyone that says they do not think of other people sexually is lieing... i mean get real i love my husband would never cheat on him but that doesn't mean i don't wonder how other men would be in the sack...
2006-06-09 15:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋