he married coz of his parents pressure but he love me he didnt even slept with his wife n now 1 month only he got married plz tell me what i do i cant stay with out him
2006-06-09 07:31:15 · 11 answers · asked by devilinside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well...sounds like he has no back bone to stand up against mommy and daddy's wishes. So I suppose you weren't worth him going against mom and dad. Look at it this way: He just saved you years of doing what mom and dad want having it directly effect your own lives and privacy daily. You really dodged the bullet that time sister. Good luck.
2006-06-09 07:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married leave him alone. Have you ever heard of karma? You mess around with a men, you'll get your heart broken. What if he leaves his wife for you? Karma will bite you in the *** (most likely in the form of another woman stealing him from you). If he really loved you, you wouldn't have gotten married. He's using the excuse of pressure from his mommy and daddy so you think he still loves you and he can laid by his wife and his slut. I'm sorry but even if he's the only man you've ever been with, sleeping with a married man makes you a slut. Stay away from him!!!
If he loved you, you'd be his wife.
2006-06-09 08:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by proud_usmc_wife04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that he doesn't love you as much as much as he bends to his parents wishes. This doesn't bode well for a future with him.
It also sound like he may want to use you in the future, and I mean use in a bad sense. There is no other reason that you would know he is not satisfied with his marriage unless he wanted to set you up to be used for an affair, and that's exactly what it would be.
Don't kid yourself into thinking you can't live without him, that's a bunch of bunk. It would be best for you to cut off communicating with him and move on. The only way you can create the space for a future relationship that will replace this one is to completely end this one. The sooner the better.
2006-06-09 08:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by what-about-bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over it, once someone is married they are completely off limits. You are just going to have to find someone else or get a hobby to get your mind off him. After time you will forget all about him and you will wonder why you wasted so much time and energy on him. Plus, if he married someone else, that means he didn't really care about you. So why would you want someone that doesn't want to be with you too?
2006-06-09 08:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There are plenty of other guys to love. He doesn't love you as much as you think if he's married someone else. Pressured or not.
2006-06-09 07:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn around and walk away, get on with your life, he's not that into you if he would let his parents decide his future. Respect his marriage, because if you don't there will be somebody out there who won't respect yours when you get married some day. Run!
2006-06-09 07:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married with someone else is the fact,for whatever reasons.Now forget him.His parents and family are more important to him than u.He has proved it.He is destroying ur life if he says he loves u,even after marriage.
2006-06-09 07:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know how you feel because i am going through the exact same thing..tell him how you feel, i mean he shouldnt take that pressure from his parents, if he really loves you then he'll understand, just give it some time, all of that will come out in time
2006-06-09 07:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by juggalette606060 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a goood situation, leave the marriage alone, dont interfere. he needs to make a choice.
2006-06-09 07:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have some guys nock some sence in to him maybe he will learn
2006-06-09 07:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by watson70w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋