please i need to know!!
2006-06-09 10:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by Rebecca M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He takes a shower as soon as he comes home. He starts doing his own laundry. He comes home from 'work" very late. He is always encouraging you to go out of town with the kids.
2006-06-09 11:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him *very* detailed questions about where he was and what he did during the day, write down those details, and then ask him for the same information one day later and check for inconsistencies. Of course, don't let him know you are doing that. Check his phone records, his debit/credit card transactions, his mileage on his car, and any other major or unusual behavioral changes you notice.
2006-06-09 17:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by opticalnoise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have access to his cell phone and better yet cell phone records. The internet is great for being able to sign up with your company to track your cell phone progress and being able to pull up all those numbers. Also if he is staying out late or if he goes out with the boys, sometimes it doesn't hurt to follow him. Then again sometimes it's good to make them wonder. If they think you are doing something for yourself it can make them go nuts. Take care of yourself and remember you are number one. If he loses you...it's his loss not yours.
2006-06-09 17:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by lucky_lady_blazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1:late calls at home 2: working late 3: dosen't wear his wedding ring when he leaves 4: hides his phone bill 5: acts different with you 6: dosen't want to have sex with you 6: you get hang up calls when you answer his phone
2006-06-09 17:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by yo_010180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he happy? Sorry, bad joke. Try talking to him. Tell him about your needs. Think about the reasons you distrust him. Give them a reality check to make sure you are just not insecure. If they pass talk to him about it, what have you got to lose.
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2006-06-15 13:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow him get his , call his credit card company and ask what he has spent on it call the phone company and ask for all the numbers he has called alot from all of the phones he uses ur home phone his cell work phone etc
2006-06-09 17:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't! The wife is always the last to know.
2006-06-09 17:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋