If everytime you had an arguemnt with your husband they hurried and call ther mom, as annoying as it is icant stand it anymore
2006-06-09 08:52:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I would call HIS mom next time you have a fight and watch his face drop. I have been married for 13 years and I have done that before. My mother-in-law called my husband, her son, the next night and told him that he was wrong in the fight. Maybe that is his way of trying to make himself feel better because he KNOWS he's wrong. He's a man. Always wrong!!!
2006-06-09 10:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by brittme 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what he's trying to accomplish by calling his mother? Seriously, what good does he think it will do? It may make him feel better in the short term to have his mommy tell him he's right but it keeps him from stepping back and looking at things fairly and unselfishly. If he's planning to stay married to you, it will only make his mother dislike you because mothers will always take their sons' side of things. How does he see that working say 5 years down the road? What about when the family gets together? How does he expect everyone to get along peacefully if he is airing the dirty laundry? All married couples have issues and problems to work through. How you do that will determine the fate of your marriage. Marital issues need to stay between husband and wife and if a 3rd party is needed for advice, see a qualified professional counselor.
2006-06-09 09:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by CleverGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation with my ex. Nothing I said or did made a difference. If he didn't call his mom, he went to see her (we lived only a few yards from her). He was such a mama's boy! Boy, did things change once his mom ended up dying. Now he goes to his dad for help. Thank goodness I am no longer married to him!
2006-06-09 09:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol my ex husband was a mama's boy.... before i married again i made sure i got a real man this time around... He will not change he will always be a mama's boy the best thing you can do is confront the mother directly she is not gonna like you when you do but it may save your marriage somewhere along the way
2006-06-09 09:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mama's Boy u cant avoid that maybe have a talk with his mom tell her when he calls she should tell him to go and disuss the problem with his wife and not her .
2006-06-09 08:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure can see why this bothers you! I sure dont know why he would even want to call his mom. Is he a mamma's boy? Does he go to her about everything?
2006-06-09 09:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start calling him out on it.. and embarrassing him...
in other words. as soon as ya'll are done argueing, then you know he is going to go call his mom...
say, "aaaahhhh you going to call your mommy, to tell on me, because you ain't man to enough to handle your own battles"..
he sounds like a big sissy to me honey... but this statement will either make him even mor angry or.. he will stop calling his mother around you.. one or another....
2006-06-09 08:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by TeTe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that what happens in your marriage is between the two of you. And is is none of his mothers business.
2006-06-09 09:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha my hubby is a mamas boy. she drives me crazy too. istill dont know what to do sucks dont it. if only if only... hey do u believe in karma
2006-06-09 09:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him out on it and ask him to be a man
2006-06-09 09:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋