Marriage & Divorce - 9 June 2006

I really just don't know what to do with my life right now. I am married (3 years) and we have 3 kids. I found out about 6 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. After some discussion i decided we could try to work things out (as long as we were both working on it). Since then he acts like he has just completely forgotten what happened, like it never happened. Anyway i find myself thinking that i might have made the wrong decision. I also find myself sometimes thinking what life would be like with a different person, and thinking that once i have my degree finished and can get a good job then maybe he will leave...i don't know what is going on in my mind. I don't know how to move on or what i should be doing. Is there something wrong with me or is this normal?

2006-06-09 07:27:16 · 11 answers · asked by sweetokiemomma 1

I think my wife is very beautiful so I like to show public affection to let everyone know that she's with me but everytime I do she doesn't seem to like it, especially when I slap her butt at the grocery store.

2006-06-09 07:25:43 · 24 answers · asked by Jman 1

Does a married man have any privacy? If I try something kinky to spice things up I am afraid everyone will know about it. (friends / family / Etc...) Even I have heard from my married female friends (too much info) about when their husband has a small penis, can't get it up, cums too fast, or had a bisexual experience.

2006-06-09 07:07:56 · 25 answers · asked by Ben Jammin 2

Hi,

Thanks to all for the answers here.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvCUBZ4i_PbCaykDJw7jIubsy6IX?qid=1006052501147

I want some evidences. Can private investigators help? What is their fees and what can the investigators do that will help me file and get the money.

Thanks.

2006-06-09 07:06:19 · 3 answers · asked by magnolia_cur 1

i want him to appreciate me more. and for him to realize i am a really fun person, i feel like were almost roomates sometimes.

2006-06-09 07:04:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

He dosen't trust me at all. I had an affair when we first got together. He tells me that he will not be able to gain my trust until we move out of this town. He says he'll always thinks the worse. He tells me he would hate to feel stupid because he's been so faithfull to me and for me to come out with something like that would really hurt him. We are planning to move out of state in the next year. Should I have patience with him till then or what can I do? He's a great husband and father, it's just his jelousy issue.

2006-06-09 06:55:26 · 14 answers · asked by yo_010180 2

2006-06-09 06:55:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you leave a spouse if you discovered they had phone sex with another person? There is no physical contact between the two people,,,,,,so is it? or isnt it?

2006-06-09 06:52:44 · 17 answers · asked by KatGotHerTongue 3

Any oral techniques or Experiences.

2006-06-09 06:48:10 · 10 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4

I say women cause they always seem to be cheating on their spouses more than men do. Of course they say the percentage is higher for cheating men, but that is BS. Men just get caught more cause they are idiots.

2006-06-09 06:45:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with my girlfriend for 8 months, on easter sunday she said she wanted time apart coz her oldest daughter gave birth and she was gettin so much hassle off her and her daughters boyfriend. so my girlfriend decided that she didnt want me to be there through it all and that her feelings where all over the place. ive been textin her and last nite we spoke for an hour on the fone she says that shes never loved anyone as much as she loves me, i tell her that i want to make my life with her and her kids, i do love her a heck of a lot and what she said last nite sounds like she loves me the same way she did from day one. wot shall i do?????? ive known her for about 5 years im 22 and shes 32 yeh a bit of an age gap but we spoke on the fone and texted eachother for 5 years before we met up. in those 5 years i had problems and so did she but we never spoke about it,it was like we werent bein ourselfs but we supported eachother,she went through a divorce and i sorted myself out.any advice

2006-06-09 06:43:47 · 23 answers · asked by stef 2

We are having alot of trouble in our marriage. I have suggested counceling & he stated that he is not the one with the problem that I have the problem. It all started about 7 mths. ago when I started to lose weight then he started to get very jealous & overly possesive. About 1 mth ago I went to dinner with some of my girlfriends (they drove) & we ended up @ a local bar to have a drink. By the time we got to the bar he had started to call me every 15 min. & cursing at me telling me that I better get home, that I didn't need to be out with my friends-my place was @ home. By 11pm he had called over 20x's. By 1130pm he was calling me names (Fu**ing Wh*re, Fu**ing Bi*ch) & saying that I was wh*reing around on him. I never in 7 yrs gone out with my friends. Now he is coming home late from work trying to get me mad @ him, & it is working,but I don't let him know that I am mad. He ignores me all that time unless others are around & then comes to bed & tries to have sex, I dont give in. ?

2006-06-09 06:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for several years and it seems all he wants to do when he gets home from work is play video games. His brother and he play this online game every single day for hours. I didn't think much of it at first because I knew he liked video games even when we were dating. But its been literally years and I am getting so fed up. I feel like he just doesn't want to spend time with me. He doesn't go out or drink or party, but instead plays this game. Am I overreacting? Do all guys play games for hours everyday? I don't know what to say to him anymore about making him stop doing it so much. Its okay if it was in moderation, but its constant.

2006-06-09 06:39:51 · 11 answers · asked by Cantrelle 3

Women seem to become very controlling after marriage. My friends dissapear and don't seem to be enjoying themselves. I know guys can be jerks but what should women do to make marriage a joy? I'm at that age but just don't see any marriages, as examples, that I would enjoy being in. (Don't say I would have to make my own special) I

2006-06-09 06:38:12 · 7 answers · asked by Ben Jammin 2

Your husband is a 36 year old, don't wanna work, your basically the man and woman of the house and you spoke to him time and time and time again and it goes in one ear and out the other. You're not happy, but there are the kids. You know you can do it all by your self and be happy because you have your kids. What do you do?

2006-06-09 06:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by penelope32678 1

Is it possible to have 3 sex pathners.

2006-06-09 06:31:23 · 20 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4

2006-06-09 06:28:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If an affair is alienation of affection, and I love food, Does that mean I am cheating on my man every time I eat , and does it make it worse if I especially LOVE what I am eating?

2006-06-09 06:19:57 · 15 answers · asked by KatGotHerTongue 3

I'm living with my in-law, which is a big family. I'm very nice to them all the time. But my Mother-inlaw & sister-inlaw always want me to start a conversation with them but they will never do the same. My sister-inlaw will talk to my husband and so soon as i enter the room she will stop talking and watch me with evil in her eyes, i never did them anything why they moving like that.
His sister n parents don't work, only me and my husband.

2006-06-09 06:19:40 · 2 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4

I mean he does things like walk around town with a cute dog under each arm to attract young ladies. The girls will approach him saying something like HOW CUTE, he answers,,,,,yeah I know, but what about my puppies?? Is that some sore of animal abuse , using dogs as bait to attract women? Should i put my foot down and demand he go to therapy?

2006-06-09 06:18:08 · 12 answers · asked by KatGotHerTongue 3

After 4 years of being apart my kids father thinks that for some odd reason theres a chance we''ll get back together. He has no legit reason to feel this way, we hardly ever speak and when we do it always leads to a aurguement

2006-06-09 06:15:16 · 12 answers · asked by cwallflower32 3

I work and he goes to college. He even says he still is working on trusting me. I am hurt and cunfused when we are walking he is making sure I am not looking at other men...that frys my brain. How should I handle him?

2006-06-09 06:14:29 · 14 answers · asked by Misha G 2

its a wonderfull thing and people are so afraid of it, why?

2006-06-09 06:10:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has been convicted of a crime he did not do, but since he has a past when he was younger (just theft nothing violent) he was basically assumed to be guilty. He was at first in a halfway house, and we got to see him regularly, nearly everyday and he could still work but something happened, though not his fault, and he has been kicked out of the program and is now in jail and I fear that he is going to prison now. I don't know what to do or how to deal with this. I am very depressed right now and hate how unfair the world is. Our two kids, especially the older one (he's three) need their dad. He is the best dad in the world and a great husband. The oldest needs his dad and is very close with him and asks about him all the time. I am not handling this very well. any advise about dealing?

2006-06-09 06:09:41 · 12 answers · asked by boobahz 2

2006-06-09 06:06:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

They have a beautiful baby with a beautiful name. If Jennifer Aniston wanted to hold her marriage together with Brad, she should of had a baby instead of going for a career. She is not a good actress. Her movies are terrible.

2006-06-09 06:05:45 · 15 answers · asked by IRENE S 1

if both partners are 194 cm/6.40 ft high do they have children for sure?

2006-06-09 05:58:31 · 17 answers · asked by Like 2

I was planning to get a divorce. I came home and my wife was gone. I slept alone thinking about her. I asked her to come back, but she did not. After she cleared my bank account, she wanted back, but I divorced her.
Now, I still have bad feeling toward her. I do not hate her, but I do not want to be with her. She tried and I refused. She lost my trust and I do not want to see her. Yes, I still miss her, but I am sure I do not want to be with her.

2006-06-09 05:56:17 · 17 answers · asked by Sam 3

My friends were trying to get me to come see it last night and i have heard that all they do is torture each other in this movie. i do not want to see it cause i don't want to watch in on the big screen, i'm living in a divorce RIGHT NOW and he's torturing me. I love Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston but i just can't bring myself to see it.

Would you go see this movie if you were going through a break up?

2006-06-09 05:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by UNeverKnow 1

you 2 never went on vacation together,.and all of asudden he wants to go to altantic city with one of his male employees,...we got in an argument over this,..how am i to react,..this is killing me,..its hurts me,.. he wont listen to a word i say,.he said im being childish!!!! please help!

2006-06-09 05:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by cris 2