2006-06-09 06:06:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ALWAYS believe someones actions over their words. Talk truly is cheap and in many cases meaningless, plus you run into all of those interpretation and perception issues. When it comes to love its alright if you show it and live it but maybe don't say it often, but definitely not alright if you say but don't do it. There are too many possible agendas in that situation...believe your eyes. Besides if you don't feel loved then it is simply an unsatisfactory relationship to you. Maybe it is 'love' to him, but it obviously isn't to you, thats one of the problems with there being so many definitions of love, everyone has their own ideas so when someone says i love you the person hearing it believes it to mean whatever their idea of love is which may be totally different than the way the person saying it defines love. If this is the way he loves it just isn't what you want, so i'd tell him you don't feel loved and this isn't your idea of what its all about or how you need it to be in order to be satisfied with the relationship, see if he tries any harder, if he doesn't then get out because this just doesn't work for you.
2006-06-09 06:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about it. Make sure when you talk to him you aren't attacking him on the issue. Bring up the fact that you aren't feeling loved because of specific things that he does or doesn't do.. Tell him how it makes you feel. That's the key. If he knows it hurts you than he'll try to make some changes.. if not than maybe he doesn't love you... You've got to let him know what you want and WHY you want it. Tell him that you need more hugs and kisses. Tell him that as a woman you really NEED that kind of thing. If you don't tell him WHY you feel the way you do he may not understand enough to make changes. If he knows that it really matters to you than he probably will.
2006-06-09 06:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just may not know how to show. Some men are not good at this. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you would like for him to be able to show you that he loves you more in actions. You love him where he is at and show him love and acceptance all of the time and spoil him rotten and compliment and love him alot! Treat him the way you want to be treated. Let him know he can tell you anything and that you are open to having him show you that he loves you!
2006-06-09 06:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loo i already went trough this before so what you should do is find out why he does that an dif he acts different then usual then that means somthing up you dont need to take any of that **** from him if i knew you or him i would beat the living f*** out of him for you but i dont know you but if you have any promblems with him hit me up at my e-mail and i do something about it if he thinks hes bad ill show him whats up.
2006-06-09 06:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the old saying actions speak louder then words. i would seriously have a talk with him about how AM felling maybe he doesn't even know he is doing it maybe he thinks he is showing you and your singles are getting crossed.
2006-06-09 06:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really didn't give us much information about how you feel he should be showing it. What he is not doing.
Can you add additional details?
2006-06-09 06:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on the samething as you, he'll come around eventually.
2006-06-09 06:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT
2006-06-09 06:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋