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i want him to appreciate me more. and for him to realize i am a really fun person, i feel like were almost roomates sometimes.

2006-06-09 07:04:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

44 answers

GIVE HOT ALEX A SHOUT AND TELL HIM TO FLY DOWN FROM ENGLAND TO SEE YOU AND THEN GO OUT WITH HIM WHEN YOUR HUSBAND IS PAINTBALLING AND THEN TELL YOUR HUSBAND THAT YOU WOULD HAVE INVITED HIM, BUT YOU COULDN'T GET AHOLD OF HIM. AND THEN BE ALL FLIRTY WITH ALEX AND THEN ASK YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU CAN HAVE A THREESOME WITH ALEX. HE WILL BE SO JEALOUS AND THEN HE WOULD NEVER WANT TO LEAVE YOUR SIDE!!!!

2006-06-10 06:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama3712 4 · 0 2

making him jealous will do nothing but more damage to your relationship. if he doesn't appreciate who you are then its because you put yourself on the back burner and allowed that to happen, its common, life gets in the way and we lose ourselves in the day to day tasks of just living and we lose touch with those closest to us. instead of trying to do something harmful to your relationship try doing something positive, what exactly do you want from him? men aren't very good at figuring these things out, they don't think like women and just ignore it, they truly don't have a clue! so first talk to him, second plan some things that bring you back together, things that allow you to be the fun person you are. turn off the tv and dance in the living room, go somewhere, you need to shake things up here and if you really are a fun person it should be easy for you to come up with some creative ideas to get things going again. good luck!

2006-06-09 07:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1 0

You're flirting with disaster here. What you both need in this situation is couples councelling. Anything you do to try to make him "jealous" could potentialy lead to a divorce. The problem here is more than just neglect. There is a reason why you feel this way, and why he seems distant. You need to seek out a professional if you want your marriage to work. Sometimes your church pastor or minister can also help. Don't do anything drastic if you want this marriage to work.

2006-06-09 07:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by RZA 4 · 0 0

You shouldn't try and make him jealous what you should do is talk to him, the key to any relationship is communication and you should talk to him about how you are feeling and try and come to some kind of agreement so that you don't feel that way anymore. If you make him jealous that might make him go out and try and make you jealous or it could upset him. Try and talk to him and if that doesn't work you might have to search for a new husband.

2006-06-09 07:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

depends on what his personality is some men do not even care if u go with another man because they have an open marriage policy. making him jealous is childish. just let him know he better appreciate u more or u are out of the marriage. if u do not want to do that then bare with him and learn to deal with it. sort of like put up and shut up or say something and if he does not obey then u are done!

2006-06-09 07:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0 0

You could try dressing in less conservative clothing (have no idea how you currently dress) Many men usually get jealous and realize things when a woman starts showing off her curves. It makes them realize that you could get anyone else that you wanted, without a problem! Don't go skanky though, that would just put you down. Also, ignore him a bit. They start craving attention then.

2006-06-09 07:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dulie Woolie 2 · 0 0

You want to make someone angry and jealous and feel bad so that they will know you are a really a fun person? .... Ummm doesn't make sense to me. He married you, he knows what kind of person you were......when he married you. Maybe the better thing to do is make yourself act more like you did when you were first married or dating. Don't wait for him to make things fun. Have fun, and he will join you.

2006-06-09 07:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by zoote3 2 · 0 0

If you need to ask that question then you two need counseling. Why would you want to make your husband jealous? Maybe you aren't in love anymore. Or maybe you aren't noticing the little things he does to show you his appreciation. Be happy that you are married and spend more time showing him your love and less time on here trying to sabotage it.

2006-06-09 07:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by o2bamy25 3 · 0 0

That's probably not the best way to go about getting him to appreciate you more. Why don't you flirt with HIM blatantly, in public. Or ask him on a date. Do something out of character, that he wouldn't expect, like eating jello shots off eachother's bodies. Remind him why he married you.

2006-06-09 07:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 5 · 0 0

Start by analyzing yourself. Try a mini makeover. Do your hair, nails, pedicure,the works! Buy a new sexy outfit, some heels, etc.... Make a date with your friends, and go out and have fun. It drives them nuts lololololololololololo. I have tried this one a lot and it really works. They need to be reminded of what they have thats all.

2006-06-09 07:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Making him jealous is the wrong way to go about it


suppose you told him to wait outside the bedroom bcoz you had a surprise for him and when you called him in 2 mins later you had 3 men, one in each hole. how long would your marriage last then huh?

2006-06-09 07:09:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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