you 2 never went on vacation together,.and all of asudden he wants to go to altantic city with one of his male employees,...we got in an argument over this,..how am i to react,..this is killing me,..its hurts me,.. he wont listen to a word i say,.he said im being childish!!!! please help!
2006-06-09 05:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by cris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have reasons to be upset, I would be too. You can compromise and let him go but not BEFORE you have arranged a get-away just fo the too of you, it's just fair.
Other alternatives is to tell him that you would like to join him, tell him that he can be with his buddies while you go shopping or gamble on youw own (men need male bonding time), or arrange for a vacattion for your self elsewhere...so you don't feel left out.
Good luck to you
2006-06-09 05:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Offer to go with him and see what he says. If he is not hiding anything then he should be open and willing to have you go with him for this little vacation. You are not being childish you are just wondering why the change. Is he going to gamble by any chance?
2006-06-09 05:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why haven't you two been on vacation together first of all? and no you aren't being childish you're hurt, and if he can't see that and wont take you then maybe a little pay back wont hurt anyone, you and some of your girlfriends take a little trip some where, like las vegas, remember what happens in vegas stays in vegas.
2006-06-09 05:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by dari98dae99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say another word to him about that --- you and a friend make plans to do the same --- be real excited about finally being able to take a vacation --- Enjoy your time in Atlantic City!!!
2006-06-09 05:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HE CAN GO AS LONG AS YOU CAN TOO
2006-06-09 06:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋