My man cheated on me 2months after my son was born & I can't forgive him.. but that ***** he was with who was also married knew about me .. and didnt give a ****.. i hate them both.. but i want to DESTROY her...(I told her man who left her..) BUT Now shes after another Married.. Man whos wife just gave birth... I want her dead... I want to call her but, dont want to lower my self to her level.. ("SKANK") I just dont want this b**** going arround destroying families up and down.. what should i do..?
2006-06-09 11:12:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget him, forget her. You have a wonderful gift. A baby boy. Raise him to be a good honorable man who would not do what his father does. Who knows how to treat a woman right and make her happy.
You be happy and proud of your son and you will have the best revenge..a good life. (Been there, done that, I know)
2006-06-09 11:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's completely understandable why you are angry but you have got to let go of the anger before it eats you up. Don't let your anger over their ignorant and disgusting behaviour let you miss a moment of your child's life. He wasn't a man anyway because men don't cheat, only little boys do!
You need to stop making threats against her because she seems to be the kind of person who would end up pressing charges. It's a damn shame you and the other wives can't have her charged though!!!
My best friend went through this while she was pregnant and while all I could was listen, it broke my heart. I did give her one piece of advice, let it be because what goes around, comes around. Karma will get you every time!
So when the ***** that broke up her family finally found a man that she wanted to marry and he left her standing at the alter while he went on "their" honeymoon with her best friend, my friend could just sit there and laugh her *** off with no guilt, because...Karma will get you every time!!!
2006-06-09 11:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First calm down. The skank should not have the power over you to make you lose your control and dignity, so calm down. Now here comes the part that I know you don't want to hear...it ain't her fault. Your man knew that he was committed to you, he knew that that piece of meat in his pants was supposed to stay in his pants. HE is the person who is at fault, I don't care if the heffa came out assbutt naked, he was NOT supposed to touch her, it's called self control, he didn't practice it. She owes you nothing, and from the looks of it shes a straight out ho. What do you expect from a ho? What you should expect and have all rights to expect is that your man use his big head instead of his small head. He would expect you to control yourself? So the ho will get hers, you have a child to watch over for the next 21 years, you have no, zip, nada, zilch time for the bull$hit. Handle your business like the woman and mother that you are, don't stink to ho level.
2006-06-09 11:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Gloria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on once too and was obsessed with teh girl he cheated on me once, but guess what, as soon as I dumped the man who cheated (because really now, HE'S the one who really did the wrong here, not HER) then my most intense feelings for the other woman dissappeared. I actually felt sorry for her. What kind of happiness is she ever going to have in her life if she gets her pleasures from having sex with men who are committed to other women? She must feel prety low about herself to have to do that.
2006-06-09 12:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything to the skank. I've watched plenty of crime shows that even a little "harmless" prank can turn deadly. I don't know you, but I doubt you'd want to go to jail. You've got to get ahold of yourself and redirect your aggression into something positive that will benefit you and your son.
2006-06-09 13:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by thirtiesrok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a very insecure, person who has a LOT OF ISSUES obviously...your right in not wanting to stoop to her level. I'm not really sure what you could do. My first advice would be to deal with the problems you have at home, with your husband, and decide if you even want him around or not...
2006-06-09 16:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should spend your time and energy focusing on your son and not that other woman. It doesnt matter that she likes married men, the truth of the matter is that your husband willingly wanted her and had her...and the other men that want her are willing. Its the HUSBAND (the one that took vows) responsibility to respect his vows, NOT the other woman, after all, she never said "I do" to you.
2006-06-09 11:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man cheated on me when i was pregnant with our daughter as well and actually because of all the damn stress i had her a month early..... i know how u feel it sucks, but killing isnt the answer lol...id definately talk to the slut though...and tell how u feel. thats what i did, and it was hard to keep hands to myself.
2006-06-09 11:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by *taylors mom* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet revenge to them both....... eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth
2006-06-09 11:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Country Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SABOTAGE' i have no idea if i spelled that right but that is the way to resolve it and make yourself fell better
2006-06-09 11:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by ramon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋