And justify your answer...
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2006-06-09 15:57:55 · 46 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please note: I was just wondering...I'm neither married nor cheating.
2006-06-09 16:07:58 · update #1
No, because you took a vow to be true to one another. And it is a hurtful thing to do. If you don't love your spouse anymore, then separate. But cheating is, well, CHEATING. If it were ok, it would be called something else.
2006-06-09 15:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never! If you ever get to the point where you do not love or respect that person enough to remain true to your marriage vows, then that is when it is time to at least consider a separation. Cheating hurts everyone involved; the cheater and the person being cheated on and the person the cheater cheated with! But a separation requires a mutual decision and openness and honesty. If you get to the point where you find yourself attracted to a person other than the one that you vowed "for better or worse" too, then it is time to respect them enough to at least be honest with them and tell them there is a problem. Doing this may hurt, but in the long run, EVERYONE gets to walk away (or not) knowing they were honest and upfront. Lying is the worst form of "cheat" there is.
2006-06-09 16:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your asking the question then your trying to justify your actions I would guess.
My answer would be NO NEver ever. if your unhappy then get divorced and let them move on in peace without the mess an affair can cause.
Why? because morally it's wrong. you hurt the person your married too. it's a selfish action based on Lust and I have never ever heard of any thing positive comming from an affair.
2006-06-09 17:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ur weird???
When u get married u make a promise to the one u love that u will be with them 4 ever. Cheating will break this promise. With questions like this no wonder why the US has the highest divorce rate.
2006-06-09 16:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, me personnaly, do not think it's okay to cheat on your spouse. Whatever happened to for better or worse for richer or poorer, in sickness and health? I have been married 43 years (I was only 2 (smiles)). He is the love of my life and I am the love of his. If you have to cheat get out of the marriage. Why complicate your life and your spouses. I guess I am just old fashioned.
2006-06-09 16:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Charm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You can never get that level of trust back, Hopefully you married out of love, marriage is not always easy, life isn't easy, take the time to talk with him/her and work it out. It may take some time but it is all worth it in the end. The grass may LOOK brighter on the other side but when you get there it also has weeds that need to be taken care of. So take care of your own weeds and you will have the other side in your own back yard..
2006-06-09 16:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. There is no greater disrespect than to cheat on a spouse. If you aren't in love anymore then get a divorce or go to counseling. It destroys relationships forever. Trust is dissolved completely and can never be rebuilt from adultery.
2006-06-09 16:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by JENNIFER L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is never okay or right to do so! It sure is a sin and immoral and totally against God and the bible! Cheating is never the answer anyway and God does not smile on it at all!
2006-06-09 16:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never okay to cheat. period. People get hurt, people are affected, sometimes for life, emotionally and physically because of the inconsideration of others. I continue to say this: people enter into relationships and marriage without the full knowledge of what they are doing, who their mates are and what they are about. Keep in mind -when you cheat - you open yourselves up to other things that can hurt your relationship or your physical body. Regret is the inevitable demon afterwards and sometimes people never forgive or forget.
2006-06-09 16:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Main Entry: 1cheat
Pronunciation: 'chEt
Function: verb
transitive senses
1 : to deprive of something valuable by the use of deceit or fraud
2 : to influence or lead by deceit, trick, or artifice
3 : to elude or thwart by or as if by outwitting
intransitive senses
1 a : to practice fraud or trickery b : to violate rules dishonestly (as at cards or on an examination)
2 : to be sexually unfaithful -- usually used with on
- cheat·er noun
2006-06-09 16:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by windyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋