2006-06-09 17:12:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
husband is not a Christian,wife and the third party is a Christian.Husband wants to keep the two families.
2006-06-09 17:23:05 · update #1
husband is non Christian, wife and the third party are Christians, but don't go to the same church
2006-06-09 17:31:06 · update #2
OF COURSE NOT. THEY WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR WHAT THEY DID. THAT'S WHY I LIVE BY THIS MOTTO WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND AND YOU MAY NOT GET IT BACK THE WAY YOU DISH IT OUT.
2006-06-09 17:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by lovely lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly too many christians think God is a vending machine say your prayers in times of trouble get whatever you want without the work not true! Also sadly too many nonchristians realize there are basic priniples at work in the world like saving and working hard so alot of evil people know how to prosper and they make it look like why be good because it's the evil ones that get a head.Thats not true though because thats only what satan wants you to think they may have a great job but give most of it away in child support Or even if things are financially great for them probably God has just given them over to the devil and doesn't worry with them anymore so satan doesn't try to make their life hard because their doing nothing for Christ. So they might get richs today but after they die they be eternally suffering life is to short to enjoy your life hear and loose it forever Nobody is worth loosing their life over and thats what the adulteress seeks . So definitely adultery is wrong and they will pay sooner or later so don't ever be jealous of an evil doer that appears to have got away with it their day is coming.
2006-06-09 18:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How on God's green earth can the third party call herself CHRISTIAN if she is the adulteress??? She is allowing this to continue knowing that you two are married? I am sorry and I believe the saying that thou shalt not judge one another....BUT In my Christian beliefs is that you are not to covet thy neighbor or commit adultery. It doesn't matter that your husband isn't a Christian, It does matter that he is doing this sin and he will have no place in heaven if he doesn't ask God for forgiveness.And for this other party to proclaim herself a Christian and she knowingly is a party to the adultery...I don't understand how her conscious doesn't get in the way and she doesn't put a stop to it.
I know most Christians don't believe in divorce but God said man will take "ONE" woman unto him. I was in a similar thing but I was the only Christian and I ended up divorcing in the fear of getting sick or other horrible thing and I finally forgave him through Gods' grace and he is living a miserable life and paying for his mistakes as we speak.Money doesn't buy happiness. I am broke and after about 2 years I have found complete happiness with a Christian man and in 2 years we are getting married. He is constantly fighting and arguing ind his life is in turmoil all the time. Mainly because of his mistakes. I am sorry for you pain..Good luck and God Bless You!
2006-06-21 14:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our culture would condemn it but actually in the Bible in the past they had many wives. I think God looks at the heart.
Granted this is a little weird in this culture. A little sad for the women actually who are lowing themselves and settling for this guy that is using them both. Then you add the children and they will be totally confused raised with low expectations from their mothers. Funny in my youth I would have condemned this behavior. After the church turned on me in my divorce I have different feelings. They don't always look to see the truth. I was innocent. sigh.........sad for the women. God loves them..but I doubt he will be too happy with this union. But then my spouse created adultury and married the woman and he is a deacon living on the river in a beautiful home...so yes God blesses the unjust and the just...that is in the Bible it is a quote. "He causes the rain to fall on the just and the unjust"
2006-06-23 15:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's up to God how long this person will prosper. Sometimes it seems like people do bad & still prosper, but I still wouldn't want to be in their shoes. I fear God too much. We all sin though & fall short. When we do sin though & we know it & ask forgiveness, we shouldn't want to do it again.
2006-06-23 15:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what you put in this world your going to pay for in the other .Remember SIN is the breaking of the law 1Joh 3:4 .so this is wrong for all families. But if you repent and sin no more you may receive this promise of redemption.
2006-06-23 14:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by zephyr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh? God will cause the rain to fall and the sun to shine on the just and the unjust. No one is perfect. God loves us all. Anger is a huge impediment to joy.
2006-06-23 15:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on whether you got married in a church or not. If you weren't married in a Church are you married in gods "eyes" or just living in sin anyways. We are all going to Hell.
2006-06-09 17:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only gods knows what he will do. Hopefully we will do the right thing and adultery is not one of them. I am not to judge though.
2006-06-22 12:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by Judy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you sin god will not abandon you but he will punish you for your sins. in the bible he usually takes away what you value most. look at what he did to david for taking another mans wife! but he will still forgive us and will sometimes bless us with more than we had before.but only if we are sincere in asking him to forgive.
2006-06-09 18:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by ramc223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for God. I advise you to pray, read the bible and answer the question for yourself. This answer is easily found at the cross.
2006-06-23 16:50:24 · answer #11 · answered by bcarefulwatchaask4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋