for the last 6 mths i have been craving male attention. other than my husband. idk y. our sex life is spectacular. he is very attentive to my needs. he is really a great guy. we've been married 20 yrs but i don't think it's boredom. we try new things all the time. i don't want to do anything with these other guys. i don't even fantasize about other guys, i just want them to pay attention to me and maybe flirt a little. wats wrong with me? i've never felt this way b4.
2006-06-09 14:55:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe its a hormonal thing and you still need to feel sexy and attractive to other men.Its quite normal as we get older to still feel like we can or want to get some one elses attention other than our spouses.As long as you dont TOUCH...you`re ok!...Good luck and have fun!
2006-06-09 15:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Missvicki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may just be going through a phase in your life where you feel yourself getting a little bit older and its been so long since youve had a ton of guys attention (im assuming). you might just want to know you still have it. theres no harm in a little playful flirting but if you are wanting more beyond that there might be a bigger problem. dont stress about it!
2006-06-09 15:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting the attention of other guys just lets you know you are still pretty and attractive to other men. Sometimes women (and men) need to know that they are still attractive to someone other than their spouse. As long as your husband is meeting your needs and is paying ample attention to you, then you probably just enjoy the added attention to let you know you are still beautiful.
2006-06-09 15:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pounce on your husband more lol. You don't need another guy at all. Get some friends like girls to go shopping with and stuff and keep yourself busy and masturbate if need be. . You may also need counseling for this too!
2006-06-09 15:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in midlife crisis and you need to get over it. Get some counseling and keep reminding your self what a great family you have.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-09 15:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Attention.
2006-06-09 15:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r perfect,just make friends,i think u got a good husband.
2006-06-09 14:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by shannu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to feel that way its just that you prob. want all the men to like you
2006-06-09 15:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont even know what you want and will probably create a divorce because of it
2006-06-09 15:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by ohmywhatamessimin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nuttin honey.......just dress sexy and tease other guys! Geez.
2006-06-09 15:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋