Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2006

to work for the event.
Hubby says, NO WAY, 25 men for every 1 female...I'm going to work, not 'dance'? How do I deal with his insecurity?

2006-06-07 12:23:50 · 16 answers · asked by Hippie 6

2006-06-07 12:17:44 · 10 answers · asked by trinimixer2004 1

He believes that he is the "answerman" and is never wrong. If everyone would just do it his way, the world would be a better place. Why would someone believe that they are so superior? Also, he is a sports freak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Literally. Any advice on how to approach and deal with this is appreciated.
Thanks

2006-06-07 12:06:53 · 19 answers · asked by soozemusic 6

has issues with drinking, although it is "my problem", feels like I'm making this all about me, and doesn't feel like anything he has done is that bad. By the way, we have a child.

2006-06-07 12:04:21 · 18 answers · asked by confused&irritated 1

A year ago my wife cheated on me with her Dr. She is 29, he is 40 , and i'm 32. She is a nurse and i'm a truck driver. They are still together, but she tells me he's not giving her enough sex, or any (twice a month!) wow! She' is thinking of living him to go back w/me. BUT, i don't think i want her back , cuz of all she has done to me. We are freinds now and we have MAD sex, anywhere and everywhere. Am i shallow? Should I go back w/her. We have three kids. Should i forgive and forget? Would she do this to me again? Don't want to get hurt, I'm barelly picking up da pieces of my heart i left behind. What to do?

2006-06-07 12:03:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 12:03:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There appears to be an epidemic of great big lying men going about deceiving as many women as they can. They just can't seem to get their fill of their cake and ice cream too. It is disgusting and sickening to be caught up in a relationship of such. It truly does hurt. How does one deal with it when their intuition is screaming at them that their partner or husband is cheating behind their back? Mine is 7,000 miles away from me in Pakistan and I am quite certain that something is going on but I cannot prove it. My spirit within me is so restless and broken, I have no doubt that he is doing something to hurt me. When we cannot see with our natural eyes what is going on, God gives us spiritual insight as to what is going on and it behooves us to pay attention when He is trying to show us. 9 times out of 10 our intuition is correct. Pay attention to it always. The lying cheating husbands will get theirs by and by. Nothing slips by the Lord. I want to file for a divorce. Where do I begin?

2006-06-07 11:53:13 · 19 answers · asked by aloha2ulelani 1

Can anyone give me a good idea for choosing a wedding gift for my friend! Under £20 and the thing better be a traditional thing of UK wedding custom. Better be light weighted because i wish to post it to China.

2006-06-07 11:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by yuping z 1

2006-06-07 11:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by freebird 4

About 3 weeks ago my wife came out and told me that she had lost spark for me, she has rapidly escelated to saying she does not love me anymore. She says I am a good man and a good father to our 4 year old girl but she just does not love me anymore. Infidelity has never been an issue, I have a great job, I always come home right after work, I clean, do laundry, cook most meals. She has always "needed" me around to feel comfortable, but she has become increasingly comfortable without me. It is like she does not need me to feel safe any more. I think the feeling of safety I brought her was what made her feel love. I have made the mistake of begging for her love and getting very emotional, which she says made things much worse. My daughter and I went home to stay with my parents for a the past 5 days. She calls daily to talk to my daughter. When I tell her I miss her she says "thanks". I cannot belive someone I have shared so much with has grown so cold towards me.

2006-06-07 11:33:31 · 27 answers · asked by Scott B 2

Is it possible to have possibly got married to young (I was 20) now I will be 29 next month. Don't get me wrong I love my husband and care for him but you feel that you have meet the one you should be with and can not stop thinking about him. He treats you better than your husband. NO I do not have kids. I feel that this other person is my soul mate. I can not stop thinking about him, I feel alive and have never felt such happiness before in my life to the point I feel that I don't deserve it. I cry when I think of the happiness this other person gives me. No I have not had sex with this person. Just there friendship.
Please tell me your thoughts.

2006-06-07 11:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2

how do you consider your husband/ wife??
As a wife , mother, & LOVER!!!
Is he/ she GOOODDD at all this or weak in some points...???


I consider my hubby as a hubby with a 9 no ones is perfect
as a father 8 cuz he misses somethings when taking care of kids
as a lover I will defenitive give him a 10 .
So what will your give to your hubby / wife???

2006-06-07 11:22:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is better to stay in an unhappy marriage than do something that is socially or morally unacceptable.

Yes or No? Why?

2006-06-07 11:09:49 · 18 answers · asked by Luv_Li83 2

Although she won't fully admit it (I have confronted her), she has cheated on me and wants out of the marriage so that's what I'm giving her. She became extremely wrapped up in the "bar scene" for about 2 years. Needless to say this is where she found her "male friend". I have lost all respect for her as a person and mother; recently though, I've noticed she seems to be showing signs of regret and embarrassment over her behavior although I highly doubt she'll ever externalize those feelings to me. Please answer honestly if you are a former cheating wife and/or mom about your feelings/emotions in the aftermath of your excursions.

2006-06-07 10:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by okitodd 2

my ex and i were together two years and split up a few months ago. she recently told me she wanted to work on us. at that time i was in cali. when i returned she wanted me to propose to her in front of a bar. i did. then 2 days later she said she is moving and needs time to heal. recently we have been talking about our problems and it sounds positive. she said she wishes i would have expressed my feelings before. i wasnt ready for marriage but i am now. her b day is in two weeks. should i ask?

2006-06-07 10:51:09 · 7 answers · asked by jlb421 1

2006-06-07 10:51:04 · 16 answers · asked by Kelli A 2

I have loved a girl for six years, who has never loved me. I helped her financially for years and even moved to Europe for her but it ended when she got a job. We neved had relationship, she was raped and has many problems..we never even ended with conversation just one day she hung up on me and that has continued. I have been suffering everyday now for six years and the only thing that has changed is the that I have ripped the souls out of everyone that loves me. I think of her constantly, she used and hurt me so still I cant stop loving her…how can I get over this? I got married a year ago to someone that loved me so much and I hurt her so bad for three years..I was getting better and woke up two months ago to feel healed and love for my wife..but the irony is she began an affair and now that foundation of trust and loyality that healed me is gone..mywife and I want to try again but I cant continue to hurt her anymore..i want to be free..any advice on how..SIX YEARS -help pls?

2006-06-07 10:48:57 · 14 answers · asked by mivate88 1

I have a friend who was sexually abused/raped by her mother's boyfriend from the time she was 15. It only stopped when she was 16, after she got pregnant. She told me and told her mother after she had been to a clinic. Her mother refused to believe that the boyfriend had done anything and called my friend a liar. She moved into my house (her father died years before and she was very close with my family) and gave birth to her son right before she turned 17. Her and her son live in our house and we are like sisters. She started going out with my brother when she was pregnant and they are still together. He is great with the baby and they both love each other. My brother is almost 19 and my friend is 17 and a half. Do you think there is any reason they should not get married right after she graduates? She wants my brother to be the babies father. I am very happy for them both, but are there any reasons they should wait?

2006-06-07 10:29:35 · 8 answers · asked by amatatomba 1

Looking forward to answers on this. Should be quite interesting.

2006-06-07 10:28:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I deas wanted please. I want to surprise him with something new and different then what i have ever done before. Nothing to do with sex or anything like that. Something new and exciting!

2006-06-07 10:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6

Anyone else feel like they are always lonely when they are married? My husband seems to rather be doing anything then to be around me the only time he is home is when he has his kids and when its dinner time other then that and bedtime he prefers to be anywhere but home with me

2006-06-07 10:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by Amy M 5

i plan to propose and i don't know what i should do to make it as special as possible.

2006-06-07 10:10:29 · 14 answers · asked by dannie 1

He only pays me attention when were having sex

2006-06-07 09:55:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

just thought that i would start one and it says that no one can view it !!
ok its not the best but it took me ages.....

2006-06-07 09:54:31 · 11 answers · asked by lucky steve 2

2006-06-07 09:53:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 09:49:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 09:45:06 · 5 answers · asked by TheDoo 1

due to rushed decisions i made some wrong turns got married had a baby, got divorced, got married, got divorced, got married to a drunk then he turned out to be an alcoholic then we seperated then he got on the wagon then we got back together now all the things we did before he got sober we dont do not at all. we don t do anything but what he wants to do we spend our weekends just setting around. before we were always doing, now nothing,
just a very hard life to get used to. i feel like i have missed out and im going to continue to miss out

2006-06-07 09:38:14 · 11 answers · asked by Sue D 2

2006-06-07 09:36:59 · 17 answers · asked by stangplayer_bert 2

Is that bad? I mean cause he's married.

2006-06-07 09:28:43 · 9 answers · asked by mirandahogirl 1