He only pays me attention when were having sex
2006-06-07 09:55:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Here's a better question: Why do you accept this behavior? If you allow him to do it, he will continue. Tell him how much it upsets you! Tell him that you are not a rubber doll, that you have intimacy needs beyond the bedroom. Men also respond to learning by example. Do you hug or kiss him outside of the bedroom? Hold his hand? Sometimes you just have to take charge, and lay down the ground rules.
2006-06-07 10:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by spookykid313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it's time to talk.
I read a couple of girls telling you to cut him off... do you really think that would be a good idea? Would that be constructive? Do you really think that he would first not get totally pissed off. or if you are not providing what he desires, that he would not go find it elsewhere?
With the cynical statements said, both of you need to talk.
Let him know it is really important to you to receive kisses and hugs as emotional support. That YOU don't want to have to go find someone to receive that from.
Talk. Tell him not to get mad at you but there is something that you need in your life and that is his kisses and hugs. That you need that from him.
2006-06-07 10:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? I ask because men seem to do this after a few years of marriage... Want him to kiss ya go up and kiss him let him know you need more affection then what he is giving....
2006-06-07 09:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and find out why that is. Do you dress sexy for him do you touch him and hold his hand? Try doing romantic and new things for him in and out of the bedroom. Also spend time with him doing things that he likes to do. Becomes his dream queen!
2006-06-07 10:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say stop having sex with him...until he can realize that you are a person, his WIFE, then he shouldnt get any benefits from you. You could also try talking to him about this, maybe something is bothering him and he doesn't know how to deal with it, so he just stays quiet. sorry about your luck...
2006-06-07 09:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by spaceyinla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give him any sex until he just hugs you b/c he wants to
2006-06-07 09:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HERE! HERE! i agree with spookykid!
2006-06-07 10:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jUST PUT IT OUT THERE! THEN FIND SOMEONE TO HAVE FUN WITH
2006-06-07 10:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by jackson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋