Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2006

2006-06-07 15:23:14 · 3 answers · asked by frustrada 1

My partner of 11 years just confessed he had sex with a prostitute last wednesday. As if that wasn't enough, he acknowledged he has been addicted to internet porn and masturbated several times a day. I am devastated, we had the best relationship, we are great friends, we really love each other, he has promised he is going to go to therapy and a 12 step program (he attended a meeting last sunday). I understand he is in pain, I know it's a sickness and I want to support him, but what do I do with my feelings of pain and humiliation and betrayal, how do I become a better person and put my feelings aside? Right now I am devastated I wish I could die.

2006-06-07 15:23:10 · 18 answers · asked by lali 1

2006-06-07 15:16:25 · 33 answers · asked by EtzbaTinok 1

2006-06-07 15:16:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm Sexy *** Hell!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-07 15:12:02 · 11 answers · asked by LuvlyGirl 3

Give me your input; make me the man at night!

2006-06-07 15:10:06 · 8 answers · asked by Jman 1

2006-06-07 15:09:56 · 16 answers · asked by mae 1

My husband quit smoking 5 years ago when we were dating. In March he started again. He's promised me a thousand times he going to quit but I see no effort on his part. I worry about his health, I hate the way he smells when he comes in. We have 2 young kids who need a father, and after losing 2 grandparents to lung cancer I'm scared. He blames me for his smoking which is bullsh*t. I stress him out, I didn't cook him breakfast so he couldn't wear his patch, his smoking is none of my business. I didn't marry a smoker, so why should I be stuck with him now? I feel he loves his cigarettes more than me and the kids. Is this wrong of me?

2006-06-07 15:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married, with a blended family. My husband treats his children super nice and our children like chopped liver. His children come and go as they please. My husband ignores me or treats me like doggie-doo. Even my friends notice. He’s even been angry and/or drunk at times, making me scared of him. He’s not a total louse. I’m not a perfect wife either. He has a good job, is educated, does projects around the house, cooks, etc. He just seems basically like an unhappy person. IHe loves watching TV. He hates spending time with me and the other kids. TV is his life in the evening. he considers quality time watching TV with the kids. I have learned to HATE the TV! ’m an at-home mom with the kids. I’m educated and had a career. I guess I need to find a career and leave, but I don’t want to. Any advice?

2006-06-07 14:40:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 14:28:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Simple beach wedding, or big chapel wedding!!

2006-06-07 14:20:21 · 33 answers · asked by Jade W 1

2006-06-07 14:10:58 · 3 answers · asked by JOEY 1

Hair,eyes,butt,ect

2006-06-07 14:05:36 · 12 answers · asked by Jman 1

what would u do--married 2x oldest son and hubby dont get along. son left home to live with father 250miles away. son wants me to move to same town and leave hubby. not paridise, but not hell--most of the time.son is 14.

2006-06-07 14:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here’s the story. My wife and I (I am a 26 year old male) moved to a foreign country for a year. She got a job as a teacher. We met allot of interesting, free spirited people while we were there. I had to go back to the states a few months early to get us set up with a job and apartment. I get a call from her today and she tells me they had a crazy drunken party last night, but I detected in her voice that she had something to tell me and that I might not be happy about what I hear. She tells me people started getting naked 3 guys 3 girls (including her). Anyway, she made out with 2 girls (first time in her life). She has told me in the past she was not interested in girls. She spent most of the day stressing out over what happened and how I would respond. My ? is....should I consider this cheating? Should I be angry? Should I be stoked? I’m just a little confused...let me know what you think. Oh by the way I would never hook up with a guy so it’s hard for me to understand.

2006-06-07 13:57:14 · 7 answers · asked by JBgotaquestion? 2

2006-06-07 13:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by ray 5

How happy are you with your spouse? Where 1 means you want to leave them and 10 means youre very happy and never think about leaving them. Please explain why you rated them that way. How long have you been married? thanks (just doing an informal survey based on a conversation I had today)

2006-06-07 13:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by stripedbook 5

Help me out please guys and gals; I want to suprise her with something new to keep the marriage spicy.

2006-06-07 13:49:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jman 1

My husband and I have not lived together in 2 years. He said he would move with us but that was 2 yrs ago. He has been fighting over small things and I have found used lipstick and perfume that I don;t use in his car, I have found sexual items that we have no use for and he has been taking male enhancement vitamins that he says are for his prostrate. I have also found where he had been talking to a co-worker (Young,Cute, and single) He erased her calls off the caller id and they both had different stories why they were talking. When I ask him if he is cheating he says that it makes wonder about me. We have 2 children together that he doesn't pay any money to help out with and he says that it isn't his place because I was the one who choose to move. He tells me he can't move here because there isn't anything her for him. He says he can't move here because the man is to be the leader of the house & it would be me being leader of house if he moved here becasue it was not his choice.

2006-06-07 13:48:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe that if people love each other that they should have the right to get married if they wish. No matter if they are gay or not. The divorce rate is at 50%, and people still get married; and the top reason that people divorce is b/c of $. It's not b/c they of same sex. The world is not going to implode on it's self if gay people get married; they are Americans and they should have the same rights as everyone else.

2006-06-07 13:35:26 · 12 answers · asked by strwrs24 1

I look back at good times with to sepsons &wife came a long wy but i became aworkaholic les time spent with famile .i mis lots but hert them regreat but cant change the past i wish.I onely won"t what"s best for them & to be happy!!!!! should I Devorce ???????

2006-06-07 13:22:19 · 9 answers · asked by 66hamerheadPD 2

I am unfortunate. The reason I say this is because I never felt this love/feeling for anyone until now. Its very late now. I am married, have kids and he is married, has kids. I don't know if his feelings are as deep as mine. He just seems to be flirting me just the way he flirts with the other women. He is 9-10 years older to me. I know him through work. He helps me sometimes, is real nice to me. I am not sure if he loves me. His financial situation is not pretty and mine is reasonable. Inspite of that I like him. I will give up anything to be with him.... only if he makes the move. He is not. Time is ticking. Really don't know what tomorrow holds. Whats holding him back? Is he playing games with me? What should I do. My husband is awesome but my heart is somewhere else.

2006-06-07 13:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am engaged to a man who loves me with all his heart, where as my heart is with some one(lets call him A) else who has no clue(Didn’t have any contact with A for the last 2 years).Yet A is always in my mind.
So I though maybe its just a crush (For 2 years!!) & my fiancée will help get over….The problem is I feel DISGUSTED when we make out. I hate his kisses …I hate it when he touches me! I don’t know why! This is affecting our relationship & its making me thinking about breaking up. Yet I am afraid to lose some one who really care for me…just for psychological manner!
Dont know am i really in love with A & cant get over him(though the only thing i did with A was talk!!)
HELP

2006-06-07 13:17:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a morals clause in my divorce decree. In the state of Texas. No one non related of the opposite sex from 9 pm to 6 am. Can she say that she is common law married?

2006-06-07 13:13:15 · 6 answers · asked by eubanks_terry 2

2006-06-07 13:12:17 · 22 answers · asked by FRANCESS J 1

I one day would like to marry again but the first experience was so unrewarding that I am not sure if I have the courage to do so. If I were your best friend, what advice would you give me concerning a second marriage?

2006-06-07 13:10:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 13:10:05 · 16 answers · asked by FRANCESS J 1

how can i argue this subject with my other half

2006-06-07 13:00:55 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 12:53:08 · 19 answers · asked by idle tears 1

I originally filed for Divorce in California in the year 2000 and my wife filed a response within 30 days, successfully starting the divorce process. Since that time though, I have been unsuccessful in getting her to respond and proceed with the rest of the paperwork. What should I do? Can I refile and hope that she won't respond to the second petition or am I locked into this middle-of-divorce status. What can be done to legally complete the divorce process?

2006-06-07 12:39:38 · 4 answers · asked by Robert M 1