Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2006

Re: Husband who cheats. I will need to move out. I make $8.00hr?

he makes $27 an hour, he is a Corrections Officer. ( But he also has child support for kids from his previous marriage.) I cant afford an apartment, car, and to have to start all over. I feel as though I should take the furniture when I go, but why do I feel guilty about that? I really truly wont be able to afford much of anything.

And because he hides things and lies so much I cant say well, lets just put this behind us and work on our marriage.
but I feel guilty about taking anything from him at all, furniture or monetarily.

Am I nuts! or just going nuts?

2006-06-07 02:28:22 · 15 answers · asked by Hope 1

i am 38yo been married twice, divorce once and seperated now. have one child from my first married and would like to have more

2006-06-07 02:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by 1-nita 1

My best buddy is a man, but did cheat on his wife. She found out about it, and he decided to quit all together (which was good). But then she started cheating on him w/ a co-worker of hers. He found out and confronted her...she said she would stop and concentrate on the marriage. He then looked @ the phone records, and found out they were still communicating (maybe even seeing each other outside of the job). My friend then told her that they needed to seek counseling. They did, but now he thinks that their marriage is perfect now. I haven't told him my doubts about it, but I somehow feel like she is trying to make it seem like the marriage is back on track now, just until he is back in his comfort zone, and then she will start the cheating again. What do you guys think about it. I want to be positive for my friend, but know cheating relationship don't heal that quickly!

2006-06-07 02:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by Whonosbest 3

he makes $27 an hour, he is a Corrections Officer. ( But he also has child support for kids from his previous marriage.) I cant afford an apartment, car, and to have to start all over. I feel as though I should take the furniture when I go, but why do I feel guilty about that? I really truly wont be able to afford much of anything.

And because he hides things and lies so much I cant say well, lets just put this behind us and work on our marriage.
but I feel guilty about taking anything from him at all, furniture or monetarily.

Am I nuts! or just going nuts?

2006-06-07 02:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by Hope 1

like when he gets around this gurl name barbra he 4-gets all about me and when i ask 4 something he will like yell at me and stuff.

2006-06-07 01:59:45 · 7 answers · asked by ashley m 1

Ask yourself if your married or planning to get married how will allowing gays to get married change ANYTHING? I used to be a homo hater but one day I just stopped and thought about it. I'm NOT GAY so why the hell should I care what two consenting adults do sexually. They don't bother me and I don't bother them.... everybody is happy!

2006-06-07 01:54:08 · 13 answers · asked by DialM4Speed 6

What options does such a woman have? (excluding divorce)

2006-06-07 01:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by lycia 2

with that email address. He lied over and over and over again. He said it was a guy at work. And I found out it was his x girlfriend.

I was really mad because he KEPT lying.

He was calling me crazy and said that I was lying and trying to cause trouble. But I have proof, emails, her name, phone number, and address! And it is definitely his x girlfriend.

We've been married 5 years. He's had that email address since 2003. And I had to do some serious searching to find out what I thought! You think he's been cheating????

2006-06-07 01:23:03 · 11 answers · asked by Hope 1

a friend of male mine has got in to a relationship with a girl who is getting divorced (apparently!) She has 2 young kids by her husband/ex husband and my friend gets on great with both of them. This isnt the problem... The girl still shares a house with the man she is apparently divorcing, she says that the courts have told her that come 9pm, she HAS to stay upstairs with her 2 children and her husband can live in the downstairs part of the house till 6am! Personally i cant see a judge saying this as surely its mental cruelity 4 the kids knowing their dad is downstairs and they cant go and see him?! I was worried that the girl was going to trap my mate in2 having 2 stay with her-which is exactly what she is doing! the kids have attached themsevles to him, and vice versa! would the courts say her husband is allowed to stay at the house? its not council, its privately rented?? my friend has to leave at 9pm until 6am! then he goes ova to get her kids breakfast etc! her mums backin her!

2006-06-07 01:20:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is always moody, never in a good mood. Expects things done without asking. I never know when Im right or wrong.

2006-06-07 01:19:59 · 12 answers · asked by djcmin76 1

2006-06-07 01:16:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 01:16:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married a month ago. Everything started out well. Now I am not happy at all. My wife is very moody. She is making me miserable. She goes from one emotion to another. She has said that she would kill me if I did something. I am already looking for a way out of the marriage. I love her, but can't live my life in fear of what to say. If I say something or get out of bed before she does, she thinks that I am mad at her. I can't live my life like this. I am already considering divorce. Help me please!!!!

2006-06-07 01:12:04 · 18 answers · asked by Ben S 2

forth with an old girlfriend. It was undercover and under a mans name but was found out to be the x girlfriend.

My hubby and I have been married 5 yrs. and that is the girl he dated before we got together.

2006-06-07 01:07:02 · 8 answers · asked by Hope 1

I just got married and I never told my wife about my past affairs as it has no relevance in my present. Some how she came to know about it and now is angry with me. She thinks that I dont love her and am still in love with my ex-gf. She is not ready to trust me. I love her and want to pacify. How to tackle the situation and win her back?

2006-06-07 00:56:32 · 11 answers · asked by vatsayan 2

it's a case of love.boy is married

2006-06-07 00:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This would be in New York State.

2006-06-07 00:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by Hope 1

I am staying with him because the children are better off with a father, emotionally and financially. I wonder if anyone would stay with someone they don't want to be with so that the children don't have to suffer?

2006-06-07 00:43:22 · 9 answers · asked by toe poe gee gee oh 5

2006-06-07 00:20:44 · 33 answers · asked by Nikhil 1

Her friend has been calling me ever since as she wants to meet me again,but i don't. If i don't tell my wife myself,there's a chance that her friend would tell her,as she's already joked about telling her if i don't see her again.

2006-06-07 00:11:46 · 26 answers · asked by sajid970 2