Her friend has been calling me ever since as she wants to meet me again,but i don't. If i don't tell my wife myself,there's a chance that her friend would tell her,as she's already joked about telling her if i don't see her again.
2006-06-07 00:11:46 · 26 answers · asked by sajid970 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best thing i feel you should do is to tell your wife the truth,that is if you really want your marriage to go on. tell her what happened before her friend trys to blackmail you into going out with her again. dont let your wife get to hear it from her mouth in that way you would not feel guilty. make her understand it wasnt intentional and she will forgive you if she loves you. Be courageous.
2006-06-07 00:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That woman is no friend to you or your wife. Do NOT tell your wife. The guilt is for you to handle and your burden. There is no reason to inflict the pain on your wife that this will cause. It will possibly end your marriage, and believe me it will be a LONG, LONG time before she ever feels any trust in you again. If the other woman tells her, then you will have to deal with it.
2006-06-07 00:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by chicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess! Admit your faults and mistakes before someone else does it for you. You will be known as a child, if you let someone else do it for you.
Be a man and unstable in all your ways. Confess and be ready to take the shoe to your face! Suck it up, it comes with being a double minded man. Youre a coward not to tell your wife about the girlfriend. Youre a coward to tell your wife, you love her at the same time.
Be sure of yourself. Find yourself a male mentore who can help you with your lose ends.
2006-06-07 00:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your wife what you have done... You need to be honest and up front here and also let her friend now know that it is over and that you are sorry and that you never will do it again! She may very well tell her if you don't and i think you should be the one to tell your wife and not her friend be the one to let the cat out of the bag!
2006-06-07 03:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an ***. To even get that drunk in the first place, unless you were passed out you knew damn good and well it wasn't your wife. But anyway, you better tell her before the friend does. Either way though...she's losing trust, faith and all sense of hope with losing her husband and her best friend. You need to be supportive...even if she throws a cast iron skillet at you. Good luck. .... and buy roses and chocolate. You're gonna need it. maybe even a bottle or two of wine.
2006-06-07 05:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Momof4:nomore! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Confess ONLY as an absolute last resort. Why let a mistake one night potentailly ruin a marriage and a friendship?
Do everything you can to reason with this woman, other than sleep with her again, and reach a point of mutual silence. is she married? If so, she probably doesn't want this public anymore than you do.
2006-06-07 07:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not confess... Say to your wife how your starting to feel a bit uncomfortable around her pal as she's starting to freak you out with her under handed flirting and dirty comments when no one can hear. if you get found out deny, deny and deny some more. Then if the shite really does hit the fan blame it all on the best friend. good luck.
2006-06-07 00:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen dude keep your mouth shut and tell the friend you will call her a liar if she says a word. And you will make her life more miserable then she ever imagined if she even thinks about saying something to your wife
2006-06-07 01:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by macster43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 07:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by cathell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess to your wife before she hears that from her friend. If she hears that from her friends, your marriage is SO OVER. If you confess to her and told her you don't want to meet her friend anymore, and ask her to call her friend stop harrsing you, you have some chance to win her trust and stop her friends at the same time.
2006-06-07 00:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by eggyaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋