Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2006

They have maintained separate residences. Do not communicate. One grown daughter. He does still carry here on his insurance because she is a hairdresser and has none but that is about to end.

2006-06-07 07:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by brn_eyed_beauty2001 1

OK- I am happily married ( for 10 years ) and have 3 great kids with my husband. No- I don't want to cheat or leave him or anything like that- Here is my question-
I always dream about one of my ex's.
Let me tell you the story- short version- I met him in Jr. High and we were friends for a long time and he was always in love with me. I finally agreed to date him when I was in 11th grade. We dated for 4 years and were going to get married. After we broke up we still saw each other a lot and he was dating someone else- I found out he still loved me and then he ended up marrying her- she kinda forced the issue- anyway many years later - I am now 33. I dream about him. It took a lot of years to fully get over him because he was my first love and first - you know! But for several years now I have been having dreams and in every dream we are getting back together or are together- Why do you think that is?
In real life I would never leave my husband for him- Anyone have any thoughts?

2006-06-07 07:06:25 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife and i and our children went to a theme park this past week and i got caught several times checking out younger girls. my wife is 39 but very hot and has a great body. but there are just other girls who are hot, too. and have different bodies that i've never looked at before.

is it a sin to look?

2006-06-07 07:02:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for yearz and my love has faded for him since he has no respect for me because I married him when I was'nt even old enough to vote and now my eyes are fully open and he sez he misses the old me, the dumb me, and now I like to live my life as If I was'nt married, like when new people i've met I don't like to tell them that im married cuz I have grown alot of anger twards my hubby, There's more to the story but i would be here all day, So am I wrong or what??? I just think marrige bites!!

2006-06-07 07:01:22 · 17 answers · asked by Latinlicious r 1

2006-06-07 06:56:32 · 16 answers · asked by KATRINA J 1

to get a divorce cheap! My husband left me 3 years ago and I would like to move on w/out paying a fortune??

2006-06-07 06:48:21 · 14 answers · asked by DeeLicious 4

We have been married for 8 years together for 10 two children and it is just not there anymore. It has come to the point where i was thinking of leaving him. I don't want that. We have shared alot together but something is not there anymore. any ideas.

2006-06-07 06:45:49 · 27 answers · asked by kimberly_ware10 2

2006-06-07 06:43:56 · 20 answers · asked by Just For Me 1

2006-06-07 06:43:05 · 24 answers · asked by Samantha S 1

It was on the news

2006-06-07 06:38:48 · 36 answers · asked by THE ONE 3

2006-06-07 06:36:32 · 1 answers · asked by benam 1

Ok...this how it goes...My husband tends to think im cheating most of the time..I've told him so many times that Im not.. I'm inlove with my husband I would never do anything like that. I cant look at any girl literally because he says " are you lesbian) I am not !! and it pisses me off...so we argue about that. I tell him no!!...if Im not talking to him on the phone when he not home he ask who I was talking too...hello i have a baby girl i have no time to talk to no one) specially men...im not chaeting...he constantly talks about why cheating is bad...and why it shouldnt be done..why being lesbian is bad...I tell him i dont care about lesbians and to stop talking about cheating I already know. I go on myspace ..i have a profile and he asks who sent me comments who sent me messages and all that... and talks about me being addicted to myspace.. because i be on it during work sometimes..( i be having nothign to do)... I really dont know what to do..I love my husband so much . Its anoyin

2006-06-07 06:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by yeah yeah 2

2006-06-07 06:34:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've recently married and my husband and I have an issue with whom should pay more household bills. I'm very old school and my ex-husband use to pay for all the household bills and I basically paid for my own expenses. I understand that times have changed and I understand that we have to help each other pay for the bills. We have seperate checking accounts, by my choice and joint savings account. We have seperate checking accounts because we are both big spenders and it's easier for me to keep track of my expenses. I also don't want to be explaining why I spent money for this and that and vice-versa. Here is the problem, he thinks that we should pay everything 50/50, but he makes double of what I earn. I don't think it's fair to pay half of the household bills when his check is fatter than mine. What do you think is a fair percentage for each of us to pay the household bills?

2006-06-07 06:22:33 · 14 answers · asked by Caroline G 1

I am married to a man but I feel nothing anymore. Everytime I am around a woman who I know wants me I regret being married. I guess I am asking what is the right thing to do, so I can compare it with my answer.

2006-06-07 06:08:55 · 18 answers · asked by dayaloves 1

We were married ten years. The last few years of marriage were difficlt as I wanted to have a family and she wanted to socialize and have friends. It was tough to stay at home and be by myself without the one I loved. I have dated and had sex, yet the memory is still so strong. I have made many attempts to recover and even get back to her. Maybe I have not given myself enough time to grieve. I am taking some time off from women, hope that helps.

2006-06-07 05:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-07 05:53:38 · 21 answers · asked by sketchpen 1

About 5 years ago I found out my wife was having an affair. I discovered tons of proof but everytime I confronted her about the evidence, she always had an excuse. And I always believed her. 9 months worth of excuses took there toll on our marraige and we separated. After 4 1/2 years of separation we decided to try and get back together. It's been 9 months since I moved back in and feel more alone now than when I was living by myself. We seem to have lost our connection and I don't know how to trust her again. She and my son were my world until she destroyed it. I thought (as I'm sure most guys think) everything was right in our world together then had it all come crashing down. The only thing she could say was " Well I left you hints that I wasn't happy". Yeah ok I'm a guy, we don't get hints that well. Can I trust again?

2006-06-07 05:51:33 · 24 answers · asked by MikeRC36 1

The bride left the husband after 2.5 years because she just didn't want to remain married anymore, not becuase of infidelity or other issues. She is 42, He is 39. They have no children together, but she has 2 sons and one daughter from previous relationships.

2006-06-07 05:48:40 · 20 answers · asked by Jim P. 1

One fine afternoon I had to run some errands and pick up my father from a doctor's appt. My husband ask if we could have sex, My response was not right now. I proceed to leave and when I return I come home to something amiss. I see that the bedroom doors are shut. I proceed to yell out for my husband and to my suprise I open our bedroom door to find him masturbating to a porn video. I was totally and utterlly mortified. I was embarrassed and so was he. His response was " oh you caught me" I asked him to finish himself. He wanted to have sex and finish with me. So I went to the room and watched the movie and we had sex. I regret every moment of this.. I felt like I was his second choice since showing up to soon. I still am having a realy hard time emotionally . I just recently had a baby 2 !/2 months ago and I am feeling really insecure.I have since thrown out every porn video we ever watched. I asked him to masturbate with me only. I feel cheated on & heartbroken.how do I recover?

2006-06-07 05:31:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have not seen each other for 2 months. He shows up at my work out of the blue and stayed for 4 hours. I went to his house about 10days later.... And, All i really wanted was to talk and hold each other. We made love instead. He showed me what I wanted and told me what I wanted. I have filed for divorce and did not stop it even after we talked about doing that. My kids are not too thrilled about hubby and I getting together. My kids are 21, 18 and 14.. I chose a guy once before over my kids and that was a mistake, I dont want to do that again. I live with a guy that I thought was my friend... but he wants more, even though I have told him that I dont and cant handle that. I just want to run and hide somewhere.... Someone please help me!!

2006-06-07 05:31:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

have i done something or am i not attractive anymore. he doesnt even make out with me like we used to . what is the deal is this the way married life is cause if it is i dont want it.

2006-06-07 05:21:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok married for 7 years have a kid got treated like crap. getting divorced now but he treats his much younger girlfriend like gold never did me. he perfers to spend more time with her than his own son.

2006-06-07 05:18:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is not about Siri, But rather another who was offended because of our wedding announcement. I often find it wild and amazing how some ladies try to milk a relation for all it's worth LONG after it is gone and is dust in the wind. I'm here for fun. Not points, as Jimbo and I have staited time and time again. When it comes to being serious about things here... Sorry. I got a life away from here. This is all for relaxation. So in a way... I'm telling you all, don't ever take me seriously, seriously.

T

2006-06-07 05:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by The Bearded One 4

We have been divorced for 3 years and he has always been a very underhanded man, and he is only really nice to me when he wants something, like sex.

2006-06-07 05:04:10 · 21 answers · asked by confused in ND 1

My husband has been in ukraine for the past week and will be there for 2-3 more weeks for military training.(He's a Marine) So, for the past week, I've been meeting this guy that i met through a friend. I didn't think that I'd feel attracted or like him, but I do. I can't stop calling and thinking, even though I try to. Close friends tell me to not go throught with it. Don't get me wrong here, I have the greatest husband. He's patient, sweet, loving, everything a women would want. I'm trying so hard to not do anything, but It's only a matter of time before i break. But, am I only feeling like I like this guy because my husband is gone? Am I cheating to a point? I want to stay faithful to my commitment. What should I do? Should I follow my feelings or my heart that doesn't want to pay the price?

2006-06-07 04:55:01 · 28 answers · asked by princess_in_need 2

2006-06-07 04:53:38 · 57 answers · asked by scotteaseme 1

2006-06-07 04:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by wessa D 1

First off, let me let you know that i was seeing this one girl online. My pc crashed a few days ago, and during the time it was out getting fixed in the shop, a female friend of mine came by cause she said she wanted to talk to me about something. Then she asked me to marry her. She is closer to my age than the one i have been seeing online, and i am wondering if i should accept her proposal or tell her i am involved with someone else online.

2006-06-07 04:47:01 · 11 answers · asked by Confused in OK 2

My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years and he is still very insecure and childish about it. I have never gave him any reason to be insecure, I am always telling him and showing him that I love him, but that doesn't work. I never go out with friends or even just to the mall. The only thing I actually do alone is go to the grocery store and to and from work. I am not saying that I have to go out every weekend, but some "me" time is very much needed. I can't be myself in fear that he will get mad. And if I am 5 minutes late from work he thinks I am with some one else. He is always using the phrases: "You want to be with someone else","go find someone else","you're acting funny", and many more. I am really going crazy! I walk on egg shells everyday and one of the reasons I don't go out is I know if I mention it it will just lead to a big fight and then going out would not even be worth it. I always am encourageing him to go out with some buddies. PLEASE HELP!

2006-06-07 04:43:37 · 11 answers · asked by Luis 1