We have been divorced for 3 years and he has always been a very underhanded man, and he is only really nice to me when he wants something, like sex.
2006-06-07 05:04:10 · 21 answers · asked by confused in ND 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whatever you do don't have sex with him. He might be trying to give you something that you might want. Don't trust him. He's up to something.
2006-06-07 05:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget what HE wants (it's certainly NOT to get back together!) If you have been divorced for 3 years, why are you still letting him take advantage of you? It sounds like your emotions are still a little involved. Find someone else if you need a booty call and let your ex know you are no longer available for his convenience. You deserve better. After all, you did divorce him for a reason. You know in your head he is no good, you just have to make your heart see it also.
2006-06-07 12:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long are you going to continue letting him use you as his playtoy? He does NOT want to get back together with you, he just likes to have sex with you when he can't get it elsewhere. I'm not being mean, okay, but you need to put an end to this. When you decide to, you will go out and meet a nice man that will love you for more than sex! Good Luck!!
2006-06-07 12:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just wants the sex. Sex is familiar and comfortable with you. You two already know each other, the pressure of having to "perform" for someone new isn't there. I've been there and done that. At the time, you feel like you still have a connection but once it's over you may just feel like a used fool.
Start denying it to him.
2006-06-07 12:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Latinagurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the sex. Take it as a compliment if you can. Suggest an alternative to him, like go f*** yourself. Realize that YOU are someone worthy of happiness. Sometimes holding onto the past can cause you to lose out on happiness that is waing for you now.
2006-06-07 12:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt wanna get back together. Its just for sex. My ex does the same thing but im not stupid enough to have sex w/him. I hope ur not either.
2006-06-07 12:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does want to get back together he would still persue you even if you stopped giving it up to him now. If you like what your doing then continue it but it doesnt sound like this is what you want if your asking questions about it. If you want more talk to him or cut him off and see what happens.
2006-06-07 12:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by belli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that's all he is after...If it suits you fine..but I wouldn't be so vulnerable in the future (sexually), He has figured you out in that if he is nice he gets what he wants..i.e. sex...Is this what YOU want? Three years is a long time. I would move on with your life and let him find his pleasure somewhere else!
2006-06-07 12:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by goddess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is using you for well you know sex. I think you need not to give it to him any more and let him go completely!
2006-06-07 12:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you fall for it. Silly girl. Think about this...safe sex. He is straight up using you as a booty call. It is eaiser then having to meet someone new.
2006-06-07 12:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋