Ok...this how it goes...My husband tends to think im cheating most of the time..I've told him so many times that Im not.. I'm inlove with my husband I would never do anything like that. I cant look at any girl literally because he says " are you lesbian) I am not !! and it pisses me off...so we argue about that. I tell him no!!...if Im not talking to him on the phone when he not home he ask who I was talking too...hello i have a baby girl i have no time to talk to no one) specially men...im not chaeting...he constantly talks about why cheating is bad...and why it shouldnt be done..why being lesbian is bad...I tell him i dont care about lesbians and to stop talking about cheating I already know. I go on myspace ..i have a profile and he asks who sent me comments who sent me messages and all that... and talks about me being addicted to myspace.. because i be on it during work sometimes..( i be having nothign to do)... I really dont know what to do..I love my husband so much . Its anoyin
2006-06-07 06:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by yeah yeah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i go on my space for like 10 minutes a day during my job when im not even around him. He has a profile too i dont say anything about that...
2006-06-07 06:45:37 · update #1
sorry girl they are annoying no matter what ya do!!! sounds like he feels insecure about the relationship, is there anything you can do to make him feel more secure? Are you providing him with his love language? ( what ever makes him feel most loved, etc., gifts, words of affirmation, or acts of service?) if not try something, anything that will help him know you are still in love with him.
2006-06-07 06:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by toni h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you choose being on myspace to fulfill your time instead of trying to solve things with you and your husband, then thats sad. Just leave the myspace alone, and try to convince your husband that you aren't cheating on him .. by more than just saying, "No hunny, I'm not cheating on you". You have to tell him from your heart, and let him know either verbally or sexually that you are SO in love with him .. he will appreciate it alot.
2006-06-07 13:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by wakeflawchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I dont think it's you, he has to worry about. I think it's himself. Usually the one who accuses is the one doing. Not always but he seems to really be pushin the issues a bit. I know you may love him alot but you can't deal with the not being trusted and having to raise a child. And the fact that it's so not fair. If your being faithful don't worry. but i would look to him and ask him what he has been up to. i bet he comes up with an excuse of nothing. But then he wouldnt be stressin you out if there wasn't something going on. Good luck !! And remember you have a child to think about too. If your not happy , change it !
2006-06-07 13:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the one who is cheating and is projecting his guilt onto you. You should ask him about that. He sounds like a control freak. Get counseling for you, and him too if he'll go. It's an exhausting life having to defend yourself from stupid & endless accusations.
2006-06-07 13:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEESH!...HE SOUNDS REALLY INTO THE LESBIAN THING, IT SOUNDS LIKE PERHAPS HE MIGHT REALLY THINK YOU'D GET INTO SOME 3SOME KINDA THING BUT IS AFRAID TO ADMIT IT......THE MY SPACE THING IS A BIT UNDERSTANDABLE BUT THEN YOU GOTTA HAVE SOME KIND OF RELIEF FROM BEING A MOTHER, THATS A TOUGH JOB!.....I THINK MAYBE I'D TELL HIM TO EITHER GET OFF YOUR CASE OR YOU'RE GONNA GIVE HIM A REASON TO BE CONCERNED (not really but hey)...DONT TAKE HIMTOO SERIOUSLY, OBVIOUSLY HE DOESNT TAKE YOU TOO SERIOUSLY!
2006-06-07 13:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by theoregonartist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, when someone accuses their spouse of cheating it is because they themselves are the cheaters. Otherwise he sounds really insecure. I'm dumping mine for that very reason.
2006-06-07 13:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by mlgjst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when they go to those lengths to accuse someone they are trying to take the focus off of themselves and they are the ones hiding something and are paranoid you will find out or that since they are doing it you have to be doing it to
2006-06-07 13:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he doesnt believe you, then maybe its time to cheat on him? at least you wont be accused for nothing.
2006-06-07 13:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by rose a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's more important myspace or your husband.
2006-06-07 13:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by RhondaHonda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋