I am married to a man but I feel nothing anymore. Everytime I am around a woman who I know wants me I regret being married. I guess I am asking what is the right thing to do, so I can compare it with my answer.
2006-06-07 06:08:55 · 18 answers · asked by dayaloves 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My profile says my age. I ave been with woman in te past. I think it is a good I deal to talk to him too. I would never have a 3some the whole point was I wanted to be with a woman not a better man. This time I feel a woman should have been my option. I got married thinking it was the right choice, in reality it wasn't.
2006-06-07 06:22:49 · update #1
sorry about the spelling, lol.
2006-06-07 06:25:00 · update #2
This has noting to do with theropy stupid. I don't need it if I am able to know what I have done wrong. I am just seeking other ideas. Man people somtimes think Docs are the only way out, hello they make things worse I have seen what they did to my moter.
2006-06-07 06:55:01 · update #3
Being in this situation is not fair to either of you. You need to search your heart and figure out what you want. Then find an appropriate time to sit down with him and honestly share your feelings and concerns.
I was in a similar situation and getting out of it was the best for both of us.
If you need to talk I am nephthys_tombguardian on YIM or email me @ SusanASarandon@hotmail.com
Pridefully Loving Women,
Amanda
2006-06-07 06:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well the right thing to do is to search your heart and ask yourself who was I more attracted to when I was younger??? you will find your answer there and dont just go and totally turn your back on men either because some men are the best thing that could ever happen to you but you wont realize it until there gone....Just make sure that your feelings are right and dont rush the decision...besides there are some drag queens so make sure this is a girl and not a drag....U will figure it out but dont make the decision over night.
2006-06-07 06:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we all have our curiosity.......have you ever been with a woman?.......does your husband entertain the thought of you being with another woman? Do you still love him? Perhaps you should let him know what you are feeling and see what he thinks, sometimes we all have things we need to work out and maby he wants you to check it out?? and maby after you are done, you wont have liked it and then were will you be? I am a married (20 years) and let me tell you, there is always the thought of something you didn't get to try, but I also think that if you want to try it let him know first.
2006-06-07 06:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Merisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you may just be with the wrong man. If your not happy, then leave. Secondly, it's obvious that you have entered into a homosexual relationship in the past. If you want a "committed" relationship", then find another man you are happy with. If you can't committ, or don't care if someone will stay committed to you, then leave your husband and enter the homosexual world. Good luck.
2006-06-07 06:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel like this, this is wrong scientificly there is no attraction between women, i think this is because society encourage such relations but if you think about your real needs you will know that you as a woman will need a real man to live with
dont confuse your self nowadays this things are very common but of course it does nor relate to any natural instinct.
you can try it but i'm sure when you are tired of it you will be damaged and refused by men
2006-06-07 06:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by anas b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to talk about this with your partner or seperate for a while and see how you go with women. It is harder said than done, but you can't live your life like this. You will hurt your husband by not telling him at all. Or you could ask for a threesome maybe? Just tell him you are interested in girls and want to experiment. He might let you!
2006-06-07 06:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think that u feel better around women just because right now ur not happy with ur man. I think it would be better to keep on the line, if u dont feel well with him, i think it would be better getting a divorce, before things starts to get uglier...Ull certainly find someone better then, and later think well before marriage
2006-06-07 06:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? and why did you marry in the 1st place?
I hate to say it, but if you stay this way for awhile, you may have to get a divorce.
2006-06-07 06:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not for divorce. If you are unhappy and things will not work out because of your desire to be with someone else, leave and let him get on with his life.
2006-06-07 06:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Quietstorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband? How are other people in your eyes better than him?
2006-06-07 06:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by AT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋