2006-06-07 01:16:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you are legally married no one can ever separate you except one of you died.It is written in the Bible.So, If your planning to get married, think twice before doing it.I believe divorce i not accepted in the eyes of the Lord.
2006-06-07 01:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I struggle with this question myself and I am a christian and by reading everything in the bible like I have there are reasons for divorce adultery, abuse of any kind, or if your husband is not saved and is bringing things against you like evil stuff that you can't handle ( which could be many things) and if you just want to divorce and never marry again and become a nun(I'v thought about it) anyway if your morally concerned about divorce read the book in the bible 1 corinthians 7 and it will explain a little better reasons for divorcing.
2006-06-07 08:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend,in Christian relegion i think its not allowed,in Islam it is so it depend what u belive in.
For me im really afraid that one day i will divorce - i really dont want it...so why im so picky witch choosing a partner and i didnt find yet...cos im 2afraid abt divorces...
But what we say in arabic " marriage is like a watermelon ,u wont try it till u dont buy it and make it half" ...so even if the watermelon looks good outside ,it might b not tasty inside & the oposit.So there is no insurance for that...
Its wrong when u divorce w/o thinking...
Some situations divorce will b the only way (like husband drink/cheat/hit) so u shouldnt stay in relation like that,every human deserve respect...
2006-06-07 08:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I was married once before when I was 21 and after 2 years I was completely miserable. I consider that marriage a mistake that I gained a life lesson from. Now I have the most loving husband, 2 beautiful (planned) children and have been married now for over 5 years. Thank goodness I didn't get pregnant with my first husband! Ick! God, schmod. I'm would NOT stay in an unhappy marriage for anyone or any invisible thing.
2006-06-07 08:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Carly829 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In an ideal world, marrige is for life. Thats what i like to think anyways. Alot of people seem to jump into marrige too soon, then end up divorcing because they dont even fully know the other person. Having said that, i dont think divorce is wrong in certain circumstances (like cheating, abuse, ect) because sometimes things cannot be worked out. I know if i were married and my husband cheated on me, i wouldnt stick around.
2006-06-07 08:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by kjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL.
WHEN THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE IS LOST THERE IS NOTHING WRONG.IN IT.
1.TO LIVE WITH A STUPID HUSBAND WHOSE CHARECTER IS SUSPECIOUS NATURE AND HE PUTS A SPY TO WATCH THE WIFE'S ACTIVITIES AND QUARREL AND BEAT HER FOR EVERYHTING SHE DOES DIVORCE IS THE BEST ANSWER.
2.WHEN A HUSBAND IS A DRUG ADDICT AND ALSO AN ALCHAHOLIC WHO MAN HANDLES HIS WIFE WITHOUT ANY REASON JUST LIKE THAT OFTEN DIVORCE IS THE BEST REMEDY.
3.WHEN A MAN OR A WOMEN FAILS TO KEEP UP THE FIDELITY AND THE LOYALITY DIVORCE IS BETTER.
4.WHEN A MAN BECOMES A CRIMINAL AND ALWAYS AN OFFENDER OF LAW DIVOCE IS THE BETTER ONE.
5. NO HONESTY, NO RELIABILITY, NO EARNINGS NO PUNCTUALITIES IN ANYTHING A LAZY GHOOSE WHO WISH HIS WIFE TO WORK AND HE WANTS TO LIVE HAPPILY OUT OF THE INCOME OF THE WIFE DIVORCE IS THE BEST REMEDY.
6.IF THE HUSBAND IS LIER AND A MURDERER BETTER DIVORCE IS THE BEST REMEDY.
2006-06-07 08:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i dont think its wrong...Sometimes ppl reach to a point were nothing could fix things between them..and divorce is their only option...
But its always better to fight for each other and try and work things out before they call it quits.
2006-06-07 08:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Zara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think today people are too quick to get divorced. When you take your vows i think you owe it to each other to try to work it out. Seek counseling, do whatever you can. This is why young people in there 20's shouldnt get married!
2006-06-07 08:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce is sometimes necessary. sometimes two people are better apart than they are together. in some cases i do believe people give up on each other too soon. but i don't believe it is morally wrong. i believe staying with someone your whole life that does not make you happy is.
2006-06-07 08:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not a matter of it being "wrong," or "right." It is almost always a hard thing to accept or "work out," and, in my opinion, should be avoided if possible. However, there are situations when there seems to be no other choice.
2006-06-07 08:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by Bluebeard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋