what would u do--married 2x oldest son and hubby dont get along. son left home to live with father 250miles away. son wants me to move to same town and leave hubby. not paridise, but not hell--most of the time.son is 14.
2006-06-07 14:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like my home...step kids and me don't get along well...raised strict and demand respect and my wife was raised by hippie do as you wish parents..we don't argue, just don't speak a whole lot either...i just grit my teeth a lot...now to your question...
if you love your man stay and let your son figure life out on his own...he'll be upset sure...and he'll get over it too...the one that moved out here after 3 years now understands me and we talk here and there on the phone...he needed stuff so i helped him out...it takes a little time but things straighten themselves out
good luck to you goddesswildwitch
2006-06-07 14:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by m37734 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son does not, nor can he, run your life. He is fine with his dad, probably better off. Your obligation is to your husband. Stay where you are. A 14 year old son can be a handful...don't let him be. Simple...you are the parent, he is the child.
2006-06-07 21:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love ur husband, stay with him, ur son will not always be there for u, he will move on with his life, so think about your self and ur future
2006-06-07 21:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋