Although she won't fully admit it (I have confronted her), she has cheated on me and wants out of the marriage so that's what I'm giving her. She became extremely wrapped up in the "bar scene" for about 2 years. Needless to say this is where she found her "male friend". I have lost all respect for her as a person and mother; recently though, I've noticed she seems to be showing signs of regret and embarrassment over her behavior although I highly doubt she'll ever externalize those feelings to me. Please answer honestly if you are a former cheating wife and/or mom about your feelings/emotions in the aftermath of your excursions.
2006-06-07 10:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by okitodd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been thinking about how to answer this one so here goes. In my first marriage i cheated and went out alot on my husband because he was emotionally and mentally abusive! I also felt he did not love me. This is still no excuse for what i did because i responded wrongly and never should have done that to him. I always told him when i did though and he would try to work through and past it with me. To make a long story short he commited suicide after nine years of marriage. Now that i look back I wish i had never done any of this to him or my kids. . God has forgiven me of my past and now that I am married again to my wonderful husband today i would never dream of doing this to him or my marriage ever again!!!! Trust me it is not work it. Not worth the guilt trouble or pain that it causes. See if your wife would be willing to talk with me about things and i am here for you if you need to talk as well.... Be patient and give her time and see if she is willing to go to counseling and help for this. Try working on your marriage and forgive her if she is truley sorry for what she has done to you in the past. If she wants out then let her go and give her the divorce that she wants. You have biblical grounds for divorce here and you need to find counseling and help to heal from the pain and move on as well! Hope this has been of some help to you!
2006-06-07 12:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I cheated and I didn't regret it for a minute. I don't know your circumstance and each is so different that it would be hard to judge. My spouse made me feel like his maid, chef and whore. It didn't matter what I did it wasn't good enough. Their were seriouse problems before I cheated. It made him feel better to blame everything on me and that is fine because I finally came to realize what a spineless creature I had been married to.
2006-06-07 11:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Debrado 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Financially yes Emotionally no cuz I was ignored. Usually there are serious problems BEFORE affairs. Im remarried now.
2006-06-07 11:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
financially yes, emotionally no, because hubby never was there, ignored me, give her what she wants, trust me, then she will be begging for you to get back together, thats what happened to me. act like you dont care anymore, and it will piss her off.
2006-06-07 12:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all!!! i was happy to be away . no fighting arguing etc. my husband now...is wonderful he is my soul mate
2006-06-07 11:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
si
2006-06-07 11:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by steelercity36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋