2006-06-07 09:36:59 · 17 answers · asked by stangplayer_bert 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, why does she need to know? Your bi-sexuality was in the past, you're married, and that means a committed heterosexual relationship...you know, thou shall not commit adultery & death do us part and monogamy and all that good stuff. Unless you plan on cheating on her for a good butt fu*king, why does she need to know? You're not Bi-sexual if your only having sex with your wife.
2006-06-07 09:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a woman that was married to a gay man.. you should tell her regaurdless of how you think she will react because if you are having sexual realtionships with other men she has a right to know ... She may be ok with it you never know but don't hide it from her to where she can at least be tested...
2006-06-07 16:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carefully
2006-06-07 16:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ari A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen that one episode of Oprah? Terry McMillan's ex turned out to be gay. They got a divorce. Plus he got the heated-angry-black-woman phone calls. I'm going to assume that telling her you're bi will be just as bad, perhaps worse, because it seems as if you can't make up your mind. You just gotta tell her and hope she's cool with it.(But don't get your hopes up!) Good luck!
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-07 16:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you are in a rubber room with no sharp objects... seriously though you need to tell her take her to dinner you will be in a public place and break it to her gently. She is going to be pissed but let her be mad then go from there
2006-06-07 16:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for her to leave you but you need to tell her. Especially if you've been cheating. You should have told her before marrying her.
2006-06-07 19:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring over another guy and have a 3 way
2006-06-07 16:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by mi_gl_an 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably already knows anyways so I would just sit her down and tell her
2006-06-07 16:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but make sure that you have a lot of space to run.
2006-06-07 16:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey I'm bisexual
2006-06-07 16:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by tinybuddafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋