There appears to be an epidemic of great big lying men going about deceiving as many women as they can. They just can't seem to get their fill of their cake and ice cream too. It is disgusting and sickening to be caught up in a relationship of such. It truly does hurt. How does one deal with it when their intuition is screaming at them that their partner or husband is cheating behind their back? Mine is 7,000 miles away from me in Pakistan and I am quite certain that something is going on but I cannot prove it. My spirit within me is so restless and broken, I have no doubt that he is doing something to hurt me. When we cannot see with our natural eyes what is going on, God gives us spiritual insight as to what is going on and it behooves us to pay attention when He is trying to show us. 9 times out of 10 our intuition is correct. Pay attention to it always. The lying cheating husbands will get theirs by and by. Nothing slips by the Lord. I want to file for a divorce. Where do I begin?
2006-06-07 11:53:13 · 19 answers · asked by aloha2ulelani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Mine is 7,000 miles away from me in Pakistan and I am quite certain that something is going on but I cannot prove it."
Your intuition? No past history of cheating that you forgot to mention? Simply a intuition on your part and all of sudden him and every other man are the worlds biggest problem.
Pfffft ... grow up, get a little maturity. Personally, I would say he's better off without you anyway.
2006-06-07 12:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all we men arnt all liars you just made a simple mistake why blame yourself your question may not show you fell this way but I believe you do secondly if you say you cant prove it but you say god gave you the warnings then tell me do you believe in God or some other god because the God I know never shows you the bad in life he just tells you what you do wrong in life before you do it and helps you to get out when it is too late he wouldnt wanna break up love he is love and therefore he wants people to love third and final you have to learn that not all mariages work out it wont mean that you have to stop this mariage or try again because I am sure you would not pose the question if you havnt like tried more than enough so the best is to do what you know is the best for you both and what would be the best way to settle otherwise you would never be able to be happy before you move on decide how where who to and where to live these questions usualy come up too late and seem to catch up too late.
2006-06-07 12:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. You're only going by assumptions here. What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty. I don't go by gut feeling. You need to find out for yourself. Just because someone changes their attitude, don't go make assumptions. I understand your spiritual intelect,
I think if you have your doubts about him, that maybe he's not the one, then call a lawyer. Don't give the reason that he's cheating on you, because you really don't know. Use the excuse irreconcilable differences. Good luck to you.
2006-06-07 12:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a liar will always be a liar; life is too short. get a divorce ; find a Godly man; and you will not be sorry; it happened to me; i married a man that lied to me from the beginning of our relationship till the end; he was never able to tell the truth.
to me that is the worst character defect a human been can possess. you have got the answerer within your heart act uppon it. God bless you.
margo
2006-06-11 14:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by COCO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling about being married to a LIAR. I have caught him in several diffrent lies and he keeps telling me that he is going to stop lieing. And I keep beleiving him. I am thinking about the divorce thing but I want to make sure that I am okay money wise first. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-06-07 11:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by firecrackertx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the courts and start the paper work or get a lawyer and he or she will point you in the right direction.
Next time you date or marry, be with someone who is less attractive then you that way in his eyes you are the best he has ever had and can ever have
2006-06-07 11:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by dido45dido 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a liar too! Fell for it all and now stuck with the fat pig. Loved me, wanted me, but couldn't/wouldn't let go of his "personal" life. Has been caught sooooooooooo many times and I can't even remember the lies, excuses, justifications he's used. He will never change---liars are liars, now and forever. Sometimes they are the only ones who believe their own lies, but they continue to lie anyway. Get out when you can....when it's good for you! Maybe while he's away???
2006-06-07 15:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by kathryn j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abraham on no account married Hagar. nowhere in the old testomony you hit upon that. Hagar became Sarah's maid, by utilising Abraham having a toddler together with his spouse's maid that make the youngster a bastard, it particularly is why middle- jap all and sundry isn't the chosen babies, the chosen ones are the jews. on no account in the bible you will locate that the youngster of the servant is greater significant than the spouse's toddler. That rule is shop on with previously in each thing of the international, in each custom exterior the US. the youngster of the maid is often the bastard.
2016-12-08 18:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the "I Married A Liar" support group and file for divorce
2006-06-07 12:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tif 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a liar too. I divorced him after six months of marriage.
2006-06-07 11:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Elva M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋