2006-06-07 09:49:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very Sorry but NO
2006-06-07 09:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. If he had cheated because he fell in love with someone, then maybe because a relationship with another woman might not work out and he'd come back to you. But he cheated because he wanted to have sex with other women. He's not looking for anything emotional. As long as there are prostitutes for him to sleep with, he will cheat.
Get out before he brings you and STD. Get tested right away too.
2006-06-07 16:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the saying once a cheater always a cheater is totally wrong. For instance, if you cheat once on a card game and the other few times you don't but you win the game it doesn't mean that you cheated again. I also think that the only reason that your husband might have a reason to cheat on you is if your not giving him what he needs in bed.
2006-06-07 17:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Re15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy for a bunch of strangers to tell you to leave him but what do you want to do? Unfortunately, some people don’t have an idea about what they have until it’s gone. I cheated on my girlfriend once before and she found out about it. 7 years later she is now my wife and we have 2 beautiful kids together. The thought of losing her made me see the light. You really need to sit down and talk to him about your relationship. Since he messed up, you have total control. Tell him to go get tested for STD’s. If he denies, then he’s not serious about your relationship.
2006-06-07 17:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by JRICH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to really really want to. If he has been cheating through the whole relationship, I would really consider what you are doing there. Maybe it is time for you to move on and maybe find someone in the future who will respect you and your relationship. I would suggest you go get a whole series of STD tests done as well. The whole idea of what he is doing is scary to me and down right disrespectful to you.
2006-06-07 16:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not very likely that he will change. I think it would be good to let that one go. It's hard but most men who say they are gonna change...don't change. It's unfortunate but true. I hope everything works out for you in the end.
2006-06-07 16:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by peek a boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think he will change. I think he could change if he wanted to but if he has been doing it the whole time there is no reason to believe that he will or wants too.
2006-06-14 16:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by mickey e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he realizes he has a problem and you are both willing to work through this - then yes there is a chance for your marriage. He will need counseling/therapy and you will probably also need marriage counseling.
2006-06-07 16:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I can see him cheating without having to pay quite easily.
2006-06-07 16:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, past behaviour is an indicator of future behaviour
2006-06-07 17:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. Avery one can change if you can show him real love. He is your husband not her b/c she can give him only six but you give him Avery thing you have specially LOVE so you can win.
2006-06-07 17:13:40 · answer #11 · answered by lilyana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋