Friends - November 2007

2007-11-03 04:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend called me last night at like 2 am and he told me he heard some rumors about me that he wanted to talk about. I didn't know what anyone could say about me, him and I live 10 hours apart, I've graduated from high school, and no one that I talk to now has any connection to him.
So anyways, his best friend told him that he heard from his girlfriend that someone told her (ok ok I know drama) that I had cheated on my boyfriend before, like about half a year ago (we've been dating on and off for 2 years) and that now I'm sleeping around with guys up here at college.
None of this is true! I got really upset and I asked him who his friend's girlfriend heard it from, because I don't really know that girl either. And he said some girl with the last name Miller? I flipped out because it's one of my former friends who towards the end of the year my senior year just stopped talking to me. My boyfriend believes me, but I don't know what to do about the former friend.

2007-11-03 04:43:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

It look like you don't trust them etc... I don't want to lend it because I think that he is incapable of paying it back and it will only lead to problems... also if you are in a group of people and you lend one person money the others often will also ask to borrow money because they think they can take advantage... how do you justify lending money to one person but not another without creating conflicts.. suppose there are 4 people and I lend one of them £20 ( and I am not sure I will even get it back so I view it as a gift for now) then the others each ask for £20 - that would be £100 potentially down the drain - but if I say no it looks like I favour 1 person over the others - what to do in such a situation ?

2007-11-03 04:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by Beast from the East 4

in school also i am so distrubed but still i have faith in god that he allways do right what ever he do but still i need help that i want to come out of this problem every one in my house they use to hate me i don't no why they only love my brother not me but still i talk to them very nicely becoz they are my elders but i can't live lilke this i am relly in a big trouble and i love someone and he too love me but i am not able to talk to him on phone and we can't meet also but he still loves me and i too but i am so distrubed u can't even imagine u can well know how is the life of a girl without her mother pls friend help plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss god bless u

2007-11-03 03:00:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's like this this girl pretends to be really friendly but I know she is faking it. Also when she is around no one talks to me and then when she isn't around I get a tepid hello from people I first thought were really intresting. (I live in a shared house by the way) She dominates every part of the house her stuff is all over (I haven't done the same, I'm scared someone will 'accidently' break them) The reason I ask girls is because they are wiser about undercover b*tchy attacks why boys seem oblivious. I don't want to play any games I actually just want to live in harmony but that seems impossible as she won't stop until I leave which I was considering. Why do you think I've been singled out? What would you do personally?

2007-11-03 01:24:19 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamer 4

Okay my friend is dating the player of the school, and I keep asking her about everything what they talk about and all that. I just I am getting more into it then she is. Should I stay back and let them deal with it or should I be nosey and not let my friend get hurt in the next three weeks (the longest this guy has dated a girl (he dumps them))

Help Me!!!

2007-11-03 00:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by Victoria 1

... are only friends with you because of physical proximity, and invite you to parties only when a present is involved for one of them? but leave you off the invite list for normal gatherings, or don't show up when it's your b'day.

2007-11-03 00:09:06 · 21 answers · asked by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3

me and my cousin were at my friend's party and i think he thought i was way drunk and grabbed my boobs, i was a bit outa it and i didnt do anything cause i really didnt feel anything...and when i did i got his had off. now its awkward. what should i do about this?

2007-11-02 23:27:34 · 26 answers · asked by lizx002 3

My son is 14, and one of his friends who is also 14 came over to our house today unexpectly with him. My son asked if I would bring them to the pool today, as I did.

I got to know him a little bit, but I have a very bad feeling about him. During the car ride there, he seemed "too" nice, almost like he was acting. When the kids were swimming, my son's friend also had a very odd physical appearence to him. He had a very odd muscular physique for his age, with stretch marks between his shoulders and back. Was only 5'5 but between 135-140 lbs.

I'm not sure if I want my son hanging around with him, he leaves off a very bad aura when he is around my house.

What should I do?

2007-11-02 19:01:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-11-02 16:45:32 · 19 answers · asked by queen of snarky-yack again 4

Although I'm female, my best friend at school was male. We were together for 7 years and we were so close. Once, he asked me to be his girlfriend but I loved him too much to risk losing him so I said no.

Anyway, that was 10 years ago. Now I haven't seen him for 10 years as we lost touch when I moved away. I recently found his myspace page and sent him a message asking 'how are you?'
His exact words were 'Who the Hell are you?' which is ridiculous because I have an unusual name and I know he knew who I was. I said, I'm (my name) and told him and I've heard nothing since.

Why would you blank an old friend like that? I refuse to contact him again. He's had his chance. I just feel hurt that our friendship obviously meant more to me than it did to him. It's been 6 weeks now and still no response.

I'm woman enough to let it go but it still hurts that someone I thought was a real friend actually doesn't even want to know me anymore

2007-11-02 15:52:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand this guy. We have a few classes together & hang out a lot. He's told me that he thinks the way I laugh is cute and that I am attractive and quirky and crazy, but he teases me a lot, puts me down, and shakes his head at things I say. We also argue all the time. At times I feel like he really likes me though and we will flirt around a lot and stuff, but other times he wil be distant and get annoyed with me, or just treat me as a friend and act like there is nothing going on between us at all. On the other hand, things he does tell me that he likes me, like looking at me and smiling, laughing at my jokes and copying my body language, and wanting to hang out with me. I also notice that he acts more flirty with me alone. Does he like just see me as a friend or does he have some kind of thing for me? I don't get it.

2007-11-02 15:24:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends nickname is masterbeattie.

what do i do?

2007-11-02 15:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by ariesrox91 2

my younger brother has mild autism(meening he can talk normal and all,but he has a few of the characteristics)and today my friend was goofing around about autism because she had to do a report on it in a class saying how "stupid"they are and stuff like that(btw..she didnt know he was autistic)and then i finally said something and she was all "oh,well....."and didnt really know what to say,but it made me sooo freaking mad i wanted to like serioulsy start crying;(like i love my little brother(hes 6) and i just dont see why people think it is so funny to make fun of these kids..im 15 and i dont think its funny!!!!!

2007-11-02 15:11:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 19 years old. I am living with my boyfriend and his family and my parents have moved to another state. My friends are about 2 hours away. I just got a job. I dont love to do the things i used to anymore....All i feel like doing is crying. I cant sleep that well..Im always tired. What can I do?

2007-11-02 14:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by animezbabygurl 1

I feel so lonely because i dont have friend.Everybody dislike me.I dont know why they do that to me.It seems i cant find a nice friend.When i was in high school I feel they just like me because Im always giving a blowout with my group mate Its like i have to buy them to be around with me.Even when i was colleges.it seems they always want is money.Keep borrowing money from me.They dont even remember to pay me back If i dont let them barrow from me.I'm scared that they will dislike me and now i am in United states.I tried to find another friend here but it seems people here do not trust each other and they even got scared of me.I guess im asian.I dont know how to have a friend to stay with me for better and for worse..I guess the person likes me is my mother only.
Since im young i have trouble finding a nice friend.My husband is very nice to me.Only i cant find a nice person to be my friend.Please tell me guys how can i have a nice friend.Why its so hard for me to have a friend?

2007-11-02 13:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Arlene A. 1

Well, me and my boyfriend, were confirmed by a dr. 3 weeks ago, that I am pregnant with our first child together. We are both very excited. But the thing is, I (not him) worry about society, since I'm Asian and he's black. My mom is ok with it, and so is his mother. The rest of MY family don't have a problem with him, but, the fact of being pregnant by him, is sort of a problem, the same with his. My best friend is black (well her mom is, her dad is Cuban), she is over the moon, and she told me not to worry about society, just be happy, and don't worry about the stares and comments, but for some reason I can't. Does anyone have any advice about how to get over other people's reactions?

2007-11-02 13:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jen Jen 21 1

ok, there is a person in one of my classes. everyone is rude and hateful to her for no reason! it is sick, me and this other girl are the only ones nice to her!!!! please tell me what i should do ( dont say go to counsler) i did that! it dint work.

2007-11-02 13:43:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who has been my good friend for years and it happens we take all the same classes and we spend tons of time together because its just unavioidable.
Stupid people keep going on about us being in a gay relationship and that we are more than friends. Its reeally getting to me because we get this constantly. Its really irritating that people are like this.
What can I do to get over these stupid rumors? LOL its just annoying me!!

2007-11-02 13:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by Chris1990nz 2

My long term BF has a bad temper.He is not really physicaly abusive but very verbiley abusive.We he has a blow up he calls me all kinds of names and puts me down.I recently miscaried our 3rd child and it was sad for me.Well today when he had a blow up he told me hes glad i miscared and that if i get pregnant again he hopes that i miscary again.How could someone say that??I dont understand??I was so stuned that he said that.How should i have approched that comment??All i could do was run and hide befor he said something worse!Uggghhh i really hate him now!

2007-11-02 12:52:57 · 26 answers · asked by Amy 2

My best friend's girlfriend has totally got him whipped and everyone knows it. We're fighting lately because of her. They're constantly arguing. He's changed and I hate it. He told me that he's tired of the fighting and that he doesn't even know why he's with her and that he honestly thinks that he deserves better. He said he's doubting their relationship and he wants to break up. But he decided to give her "one last chance". But they got into this big arguement the other day and today, it's like nothing happened and everything's back to normal. And for Halloween, him and our other friends were supposed to go to my house, but they ended up not going cuhs his girlfriend had to leave, so they all left. And she's changing him so he's rarely happy and it makes me sad to see him like that. I don't want to break them up, but he says he loves her but they fight every other day and he doesn't want to be with her, but they always seem to make up. It's ruining our friendship.

2007-11-02 12:20:36 · 3 answers · asked by Mari 2

I know this one girl that tells me my younger sister is more "sophisticated" then me, she keeps saying it over and over too! I get kind of offended when she says that, but I could be an over reactive-nitpicky person. Do you think its an insult for someone to say that to your face?

2007-11-02 12:17:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

And I'm already thinking about Suicide! I really don't know why I'm thinking about that! Since my new boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago, my ex broke up with me a week ago, he started to called me A B**** and called my friend that too, and my grades have been dropping, I haven't been myself! My mind is tells me that no one care for me and they were only pretended to be my friend because they felt sorry for me! I hate myself! I don't deserve to be alive! I want to kill myself and die alone without anybody! Please help me with this! I can't even control my depression anymore! DON'T EVEN REPORT THIS! I'm really tired of the violations I have already! PLEASE BE HONEST AND NO STUPID OR PERVERT ANSWERS! I'm really upset and crying right now! Please help me! I will check on this later, so thanks and bye for now!

2007-11-02 12:06:17 · 14 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7

I had a friend I was close with for a long time. We have been growing apart because he has changed a lot (in a negative way). When he was losing all of his friends, I stayed by his side.

But I got sick of the way he was acting as well, and I stopped being his friend. He apoligized, and I became his friend again. But then he started acting like a jerk towards me again, so I stop hanging out with him. This happened about 8 times.

I don't do this with ANY of my other friends!

I noticed that he didn't mean his apologies, and just said them to look like the good person in the situation. So I just told him that we could try to get along, but I didn't want to be friends with him again. We could just be like associates.

Was I right to do this? I think I gave him enough chances. And I know him well enough to realize that he didn't mean it when he said sorry. I don't feel guilty or anything, so I don't think I was wrong.

Some of the things he use to do to me were:

He use to talk bad about me behind my back, he would try to embarrass me in front of other people to act 'tough' or 'bad'.

He would make fun of me, the way I dressed, how much money my parents made(because he is from a family that is well-off), who I hung out with, and how I looked.

And he treated his girlfriend (who is my best friend) really bad. He did all of these things to her, and it made her really sad, but she let him do it.

And what REALLY made me SOOOO angry with him was what he said the other day. On Halloween, my friend passed away in an accident. Nov. 1st was my friend's (not the one that died) birthday, and he said,"Thanks to him dying, nobody will remember that it is my birthday!!"


What do you think?

2007-11-02 10:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by . 4

2007-11-02 10:20:15 · 19 answers · asked by Incognito 3

I have friends, yet I feel so alone,a bit sad & a littlebit insicure...wat's the problem?
I think it's because I nvr can find a guy& wen I do im too scared 2tell them I like them because I dont want to risk losing them as a friend.
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I have friends& im not alone...but I still feel so alone, lonely...wats wrong?

2007-11-02 10:02:24 · 35 answers · asked by Alexandria C. (star-crossed) 1

i seem to continuously make and lose my friends. I become best friends with one or two people hang out with them for a year, something stupid happens and, i cant stand them anymore and stop talking to them. its happend twice already and i think its on the verge of happening again. im sick of it and i dont know whats wrong with me. has it happend to you?

2007-11-02 09:35:47 · 23 answers · asked by jreeses2673 4

Ok so this is what happened. I was in the library today at school and 2 of my friends and this girl I don't like were talking out loud so i heard the whole conversation. The girl i dont like said "Her boyfriend is cheating and she's clueless." and my friend started singing Secret Lovers. I had no idea who they were talking about so I didn't care. So then I went to my locker and I saw a note and it said my boyfriend's name and some girl's name and then it said secret lovers. So when I got back to the class I looked at all 3 of them and they smiled and i just sat down at my desk and said nothing. Please help me somebody I'm falling apart. School is already stressful enough and he' making it worse. What should I do?

2007-11-02 07:45:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today I decided to ask my best friend *kate who she fancied. She got a bit embarassed and said she didn't want to say, especially not to me. I was really curious by then so i kept pestering. She said the person was in our maths class. I suggested a few boys and she suddenly snapped: what makes you think its a boy?

I laughed nervously but carried on. But after a while I realised she meant it, she fancied a girl. I went through all the girls in our maths class, every single one apart from myself.
It sought of dawned on me then, and i realised she'd be hinting all day. She fancied me!
And she said it straight out this time: I fancy you. Then she re-called loads of incidents that i thought had been innocent like sleepovers, or hugs. I'm really confused. I love her to bits, shes my best mate. But i dont like her in that way. I don't know what to do! Turns out shes liked me for three years!! Please help

2007-11-02 07:13:47 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

my bestfriend calls me a whore.. and she says to admit it and every one knows i am. but no one thinks i am except her. and ive done things.. most of them having no choice, and the other times i did it out of "love".. and i thought she understood that im not.. ive just gotten in bad situations. but she still calls me a whore..

2007-11-02 06:47:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous