i seem to continuously make and lose my friends. I become best friends with one or two people hang out with them for a year, something stupid happens and, i cant stand them anymore and stop talking to them. its happend twice already and i think its on the verge of happening again. im sick of it and i dont know whats wrong with me. has it happend to you?
2007-11-02 09:35:47 · 23 answers · asked by jreeses2673 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes. it has. and it sucksssss
we should make a club.
2007-11-02 09:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me all the time, i have about 10 groups of freinds that i am really close with , or was at the time, at one time i will be really tight with one group, then they will jsut annoy me and iw ill move to another and not talk to them for along time till i can stand them again. Its just how i work becaause i get bored, and people do change. I dont think its a problem with you, friends are like boyfreinds, you keep on moving on till you find good ones that will last a life time, well... in my opinion anyways
2007-11-02 09:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive just lost a friend , i think it was more her fault, but maybe it was my own for not knowing better
anyway last year(and past years) we were best friends
this year she went to private high school i went to public high school
she totally changed she became snobby, has a boyfriend she doesnt even like because he is popular and she is acting totally different. the only times she talks to me is for a ride somewhere .our friendship is pretty much over and we've only been at different schools for 2 months. people change ,i always thought id be friends with her i guess not now. im sorry i know its hard , all my friends are currently fighting or are no longer friends. the people i could use to talk to for hours about nothing i cant even hold a 2 minute conversation with anymore.
2007-11-02 09:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG SAME ! I lost a friend because I never said hi to them. I can't really keep a friendship going right now, but it happens. I bet your friend is acting like a moody cow and a total bee-otch to you. Listen, they are not friends if they are going to loose you over small things ! There is nothing wrong with you unless you meant it or anything which I'm sure you didn't. Tell them to take a hike out of your life and LET A FRIEND FIND YOU ... not vice versa. If they find you, they will be more committed.
2007-11-02 09:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by pop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your problem is is that you hold a grudge; you don't forgive. You care more about holding in the anger than you do about letting it go. You have to realize you make stupid mistakes too--enough to stop judging your friends. If you were truly a best friend to them, then you would have stayed. Good friends last forever, not just for a moment.
2007-11-02 09:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bloodscythe T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school I had a group of friends, now I only have like two close friends. People grow up, or don't and stay immature and fight over pety things. I think what you are going through is totally normal. Most people change and friendships break, it's the game of life.
2007-11-02 09:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Beth Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEAH i jlost some friends but they were always talking behind my back so i decided to drop our friend ship but thats no were near the whole thing its a long story but the two peeps there always mad at each other and told them not to come crying bac to me when they get in a fight and guess what they did well they want to be friends with me but yeah theres lots more to my story but WAY WAY WAY TOO LONG well hope you figure something out TTYL
2007-11-02 09:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Kirsten*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, they probably weren't your best friends, a best friend is for life and people say "oh, I have 10 best friends," when in fact, you can only really have one; some people have none, but some close friends and they are still as happy.
Don't worry! Friends come and go but you'll find someone special one day!
Lorna
2007-11-02 09:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Over fb, truly. It grew to become into stupid, yet to be honest -- issues are so lots greater advantageous without her none the fewer. I lost an 11-year friendship, yet I quite think of it grew to become into for the superb despite if it grew to become into trivial or no longer.
2016-10-03 05:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may dance to the beat of flute in your head and they are dancing to the beat of a drum. To have a good friend you should get to know them first, very very well before you call them friend. Good luck and take care
2007-11-02 09:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by lady_one_feather_44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never lost a freind over a stupid thing but i think i may be losing one right now unless i do somthing about it and he is my only guy-freind that lives in the same state that i do and i feel like he was my closest freind (even though him and i have only been freinds for 2 months) he knows me better than lexy (lexy has been my freind for 8years) does. he is also my crush. i told him things i havnt even told bitty (she has been my freind for over 9 years) and bitty doesnt even go to the same school i go to. and i feel like i can really trust him becouse i can he is sweet and kind and never breaks a promise (unlike reenay,lexy,and lily all of them are my freinds but they dont do anything to hurt me but they also dont always keep their promises)
2007-11-02 09:47:26 · answer #11 · answered by spiritgirl2595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋