Friends - November 2007

k. im 1 of those girls who tries 2 resolve conflist w/ friends. this happened recently. so one of mi friends is in the soccer clique and mi other friend is in the girlygirl clique. they had a big arguement. i got stuck in the middle, they were telling me things behind eachothers backs.. and then the other girl would be like, "what did she say about me?" now they both want me 2 b their friend but they dont want me 2 b riends w/ both of them. Helpp!!

2007-11-08 01:34:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 01:29:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 2 freinds are gonna marry and become step-bro and step-sis on 12th dec and i need to destory their parents' relationship before its tto late. The reasons-
The grandmother of the male freind is racist and willl not allow her son(friend's dad0 to marry a non-hispanic and she had to is goin to diwosn the family and my freidn n his sis love the gran a LOT but teh dad doesn't care
The boy has attmpted suicide but survived and not hurt excpet for a few bruises(he jumped in front of a car but just fell to the ground).He doesn't wanan becoem step-bro to one of his clsoe freinds. He is aslo neglecting his sports and studies very bad. He has the capapcity to climb mt.everest or be einstein but this is messinh him up well bad
The girl also doesn't want to become a step-sis and is crying all the time but no suicide.She is thinking of taking drugs
If the couple marry also one of the girls maid loses her jobs as the boy'dad doesn't wanan spend money on here and chances are the maid will be

2007-11-07 22:49:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do u think this is right or not? One of my best friends stops his relationship with his best friends, just because of his gf. Last night he talked to us and he said that he want to end his relationship with his 3 best friends. I have never seen some thing like this in my life. I think he is retard, all people know that girls don’t stay forever. I know that girl and his family and I know she will not stay with him for ever. WTF? I don’t gave a F***, but it is very interesting for me that how a guys can leave his friends because of a girl, and I know that we were very good friend and I did many thing to make him happy ,and also I have gf too.

2007-11-07 22:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She constantly whinges and complains and goes on and cries. She does not listen just complains. I have a headache from her. What can I do?

2007-11-07 21:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

IS LOVE FADELESS AND IF IT IS HOW CAN U TELL THAT .and CAN UR DAD HATE U?

2007-11-07 20:48:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a choice between hero honda Pleasure TVS Scooty pep+ or BAJAj Kristal

Which 2 take??
This vehicle is not only 4 me, but my mom n dad can also use it
so which 2 take

u all are very experienced people so help me out!!
Also Give reasons 4 ur suggestions


PLZ
Thanx

2007-11-07 20:03:34 · 2 answers · asked by perfectgirl_rutu 1

Andrew Galon Schmidt
my mom died when i was 13 i was taken from him by my dad...He has all my6 baby6 pictures and pictures of my6 mom i would like t5o get please help

2007-11-07 17:57:44 · 4 answers · asked by Joshua M 2

My friend thought about having a party where she wanted to play twister with some friends. It was happening at my place....And she wants to bring this fat friend of hers along....I don't really feel like playing twister with this fat person....Because two of my buddies are gonna be there, and I don't wanna be embarrassed. How do I tell this to my friend?

2007-11-07 16:47:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so this is what happened. I became very close frnds w thid guy who was in love w my bst frnd. She didn't feel the same way about him.
Anyways I guess he just used me to make her jealous. A few days ago he told me has to cut me and my bst frnd off.
We (me and him) were supposed to meet personally but he told me he just can't do it. He thanked me for evrythng and told me I'm the best (we said goodbye on IM)

So eventhough I know there's this chance that he might have used me I still feel sooo sad and I still feel that I'm going to miss him alot.
*I don't have any feelings for him. He was like a brother 2 me.

Would u call this STUPID or just being HUMAN? Be honest!!!

2007-11-07 15:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by it's_me 2

I saw on a yahoo video that a girl got detentions for hugging friends, and I think that it's just frickin jacked up for schools to ban hugs. Kissing and holding hands have a good reason to be banned, but hugging to me is not a crime at all. I live in California near San Jose, and I want to know if they'll ban hugging around there. I give my friends hugs all of the time, and it never hurt anybody!

2007-11-07 15:02:30 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

My best friend just hurt herself so she can stuff feeling others pain and feel her own, her mother is abused by her boyfriend and won't tell anyone because she "loves him" and her mom doesn't realize how much it has been hurting my friend. I want other peoples opinions before I go to the school councilor, this is her first time but her first time she wanted to kill herself. I calmed her down but don't know what to do now? Will she stop? Will she keep hurting herself? Someone please help me.

2007-11-07 13:25:07 · 15 answers · asked by Jillian Evelyn 1

Ok, there is a guy I like, but I don't know if he likes me. We used to go out, and his friends say he likes me. But he doesn't say anything, so I don't know. What should I do?

2007-11-07 12:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, i have a bestfriend katie
i think im getting sick of her.

anyways, i always have to have more friends then her, and be better then her.
If she talks about her friend, i think i get jealous.
But i always talk about my friends, and i have more then her. she hardly has two.

shes so shy too, she never talks in front of my friends who are always hyper and hugging me and stuff.

lately ive been ingoring her cause shes boring me out, her moms like her bestfriend. and like wtf?
i ALWAYS used to go to her house every single day, but ive been going to my other friends house for the past two weeks, while she sat home alone
lol.


what should i do?

2007-11-07 12:18:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this gay friend of mine who i gave my password to my my space account and now he logged in as me and pretends to be me and sends these messages to people who are on my friends list. Like rude things i have already changed my password and he keeps figuring it out.

2007-11-07 10:07:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well i used to like this boy..It only lasted for 4 Days..
I was only lusting over him well I never told him that i stopped likeing him and kept leading him on Like flirting, and being nice & such. well its` been about a month since me & him have talked Because i couldnt` stand him anymore because he was so annoying we barely see eachother @ school we dont` even talk on the phone anymore..Well today i was talking to my friend In the hallway & he came & put his arms around me & was hugging me.I didnt` feel comfortable with that @ all.
But i just let it happen Why do you think he did that??!!
Because i really dont` know why after i told his friend to tell him to leave me alone. & he is hugging me & stuff again What do you think!?

2007-11-07 10:01:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am naturally smaller than her, but yet when I told her my weight, she soon after developed an eating disorder. I have one too, she doesn't know about it but this is an example of how she ALWAYS tries to be "better."

I know that bestfriends are about going through life together, NOT about trying to have a "better" life.

I have a another very close friend, she talks down about her just because she's my best friend.
She tries to say she's smarter than me, and that she has better grades. But it's not even true.. at all.. and it really bugs me.

She's a know it all and ALWAYS thinks she's right.
She shoots down every fun idea that I have, and mopes at lunch when my other friends sit with us. Sorry she doesn't have any other friends besides me..

But WHY must she always make everything into a competition?

2007-11-07 09:57:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's sitting next to me in class and just asked me this question. Desperate help please!

2007-11-07 09:50:16 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer N 1

There is a family in my neighborhood that appear to be the "perfect" family. The husband is attractive, intelligent, a good provider and a good Daddy. The wife is 16 years younger than he and quite a pretty. She is President of the PTA and a good Mommy. They have 2 beautiful children, an 11yo boy and a 9yo girl. They just got a puppy; and have the perfect little house, on a perfect little street, in our perfect little neighborhood. Everything seems truly "perfect" but it's not. I know for a fact that the husband been having an affair, perhaps not his first, for over a year. The wife doesn't seem to have any idea. It just breaks my heart. I don't really know her. Do I keep this information to myself? Help, I need your advice, I'm at a loss!

2007-11-07 09:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by gem20 1

i over heard my daughters school friends saying it about me. they were boys i assume they were taking the mick out of me but my daughter wont tell me why.

2007-11-07 08:45:58 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

i noticed how rubbish i am. im pretty depressing doom and gloom myself. my soh is non-existent (unless drunk).

everyone has their own problems in life. they want happy positive people to be around them. to make them laugh and forget bout things. let the postivity run...i couldnt provide this.

i just said dont worry. not sure if i helped muchh.

how do you cheer friends up?

2007-11-07 08:40:33 · 4 answers · asked by Twix Boy 1

theres a girl megan in my class and i've been friends with her for about 3 years now..we're friends but not best friends.i was in a room with her when we went for our school trip to ottawa and i completely saw her in a different way,a way which is bad.Everytime i offered to sit somewhere go someone do something she ignored it and said what she wanted to do and then complained to me afterwards that i was being bossy and doings things MY way. This year she's in my science class,and sometimes if i say something she'll take it so offensively that she won't talk to me for the rest of the day,and my intention weren't to make her feel bad..and when i try to talk to her she doesn't even look at me when i'm talking to her...she ignores me and does things with my other friends behind my back and this weekend she asked if i wanted to go see a movie with her...but see i don't know if i should go..she's like this most of the time but when she's not she's a really nice person

2007-11-07 08:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

One time my friend was trying to impress a boy and she was like
"Look she keeps following me could you make her go away??"
I'm really pissed, and she's started pretending to be nice to this one girl and then as soon as she left she was like, "Oh she's annoying and weird" to another group of people. Should I still be friends with her? She's really fun and nice sometimes but other times she's a complete jerk!

2007-11-07 08:10:15 · 5 answers · asked by thethinker678 2

Well, my best friend of over 12 years doesn't like my boyfriend at all. He and I have been together about 3 and a half years and have just started having a long distance relationship so that I can go to school in a different state (my home state). We have financial problems and he has a lot of health issues. I love him so much but my best friend thinks he is not good enough for me and it has caused a riff between us because I want to stay with him. She feels he is controlling and doesn't love me in the "right" way. I don't see that at all. HELP!

2007-11-07 08:06:06 · 21 answers · asked by redirishm 1

ok, well, alot of things have happened to me lately, and i've done the research, and i think i might be depressed, i was talking to my boyfriend of 1+ years, and he says i need to get help and if i dont he is going to for me, but my freinds i've known for ever are telling me im fine and that theyre there and i will get through it, what should i do? who do i need to listne to, my boyfreind means the world to me but so do my friends, is my boyfreind being over protective?

2007-11-07 08:04:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever someone gets mad at me or says something even a LITTLE insulting, I get upset. Whenever it looks like someone hates me, or is not happy with me at the moment, I get really upset. How can I change?

2007-11-07 07:32:04 · 28 answers · asked by head in the clouds 5

last night i asked a question but now everything has changed and im so confused! my ex bf that i broke up with him 2 years ago he called me today.2 weeks ago i had texted him to ask him to forgive me about what i had done to him.he loved me and i ignored him and i didnt answer his call 2 years ago.he was my best friend.i didnt know but now im sorry so i texted him.he answred me and forgave me.and then told me about his fiance! i was shocked but i tryed to convince myself that he has moved on.i didnt want to ruin his happiness with that girl.to tell you the truth i was alittle jealouse but i tryed to forget.but today he called me and talked so friendly.seems like no distance of 2 years between us.i dont know what to do.im worried about his fiance.maybe it was wrong to text him and now maybe he thinks about me.i didnt want to do it actually i wasnt aware of his fiance.he didnt say anything about his fiance today and i didnt ask.tell me what to do? what does he mean?

2007-11-07 07:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this group of 4 friends at school and there is this one girl in our group that is so annoying and she really gets on our nerves.She always makes fun of people without caring how they feel.Like for example I like to collect different kinds of nail polish.When i come to school with it she tells me ,'Stop wearing that I don't like it."So then I tell her that it's not her bussiness.Sometimes she makes fun of the other girls about the way they look in their body shape and they feel really hurt.We sometimes try to make fun of her but when that happens,she leaves the group and then comes back again.What kind of friend is this?Advice please!!!!!!!

2007-11-07 07:24:23 · 7 answers · asked by crazylebaneselily 3

2007-11-07 07:20:12 · 5 answers · asked by Olivia G 1

How to deal with a frenemy that's a roommate?
I can't exactly move out. and she's not bad all the time. she's self absorbed enough to not notice that I actually don't like her any more. I'm trying to match her superficiality in conversation and skid by with distant politeness. I won't go into details but she's extremely toxic as a friend, we used to be so close and now I've been hurt by her emotional distance, her rudeness (cancels hangout times constantly, has loud sex when I've mentioned how it bothers me, never cleans).
We were once pretty close, but in waves, I would be so happy when she'd open up to me, and then she'd cancel or go back to being cagey. She has few female friends. I don't want to be her friend. I have to deal with her though, since we live together. I don't want to screw up the balance in the house and make it spelled out that I don't like her. But my blood pressure goes up when I deal with her. How do I deal with my emotions and maintain my composure/sanity?

2007-11-07 07:16:28 · 4 answers · asked by needtostop 1