My best friend just hurt herself so she can stuff feeling others pain and feel her own, her mother is abused by her boyfriend and won't tell anyone because she "loves him" and her mom doesn't realize how much it has been hurting my friend. I want other peoples opinions before I go to the school councilor, this is her first time but her first time she wanted to kill herself. I calmed her down but don't know what to do now? Will she stop? Will she keep hurting herself? Someone please help me.
2007-11-07 13:25:07 · 15 answers · asked by Jillian Evelyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For all the people who have been asking no IT IS NOT ME!
2007-11-07 13:32:55 · update #1
I have a friend like this too and it took a lot of therapy for her to finally stop hurting herself. Please do what is best for her and get her some help. She may be angry at first, but eventually she will realize you did the right thing. I have had to intervene on several occasions and I have no regrets. If I hadn't, my friend would be dead today. Best wishes.
2007-11-07 13:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im very sorry
my best friend used to do that when she was in 8th grade
but of course everyone gets over that whole cutting thing
but you know right after your done with that , drugs and sex its what its aaaalllllllllllllll about
shes a junior this year- so far tried like 6 drugs and has been addicted to three
she will stop be sure of that
but wait till she gets to the drugs theres no stopping then
you should talk to a counsuler
maybe i should've done that
2007-11-07 13:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not going to stop without help. Her mom is "blinded by love". U need to tell the school councilor NOW.
2007-11-07 13:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by bhappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Build up some courage and talk to your friend, and agree that you will help your friend tell her mother. Negotiation is the best, seriously. Try talking to the mother...explain what she is causing her daughter. I bet she doesn't even know she hurts her daughter.
If that doesnt work....PLEASE go to the school counseller. Adult help is the best, take my advice for it.
2007-11-07 13:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something you need to tell someone I had a friend who went through that she always hurting her self she got through it but she really turn crazy she a really cold heart help you friend before is to late.
2007-11-07 13:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by foxy_sexy_lesbian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the first person any teenage girl turns to is her best freind. So if u claim to be her freind, than common!!! HELP HER!!! she seems to be going throu alot and u cant just sit back and watch like its entertanment!!! hopefully, after u come throu 4 her she will get betta!!!
2007-11-07 13:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥oOpS, i DiD iT aGaIn♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tell your friend to quit being Emo, and have her call the police, or something on her mom's bf.
2007-11-07 13:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
o.k. if you feel confident enough talk to her first.Get inside her head see what pain she is really going through.If you have the knowledge try to help her.Or atleast calm her done make her feel good enough to not do anything dangerous again.Then i could go to a consilor.Do it before it is too late.
2007-11-07 13:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop her now. get her her help my freind wanted to hurt her self (and did many times) and after a few years she went crazy now shes in a wheelchair. i didnt talk to her sence then h lost hope in her.
2007-11-07 13:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Zabo P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend should love herself more.
2007-11-07 13:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋