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Ok well i used to like this boy..It only lasted for 4 Days..
I was only lusting over him well I never told him that i stopped likeing him and kept leading him on Like flirting, and being nice & such. well its` been about a month since me & him have talked Because i couldnt` stand him anymore because he was so annoying we barely see eachother @ school we dont` even talk on the phone anymore..Well today i was talking to my friend In the hallway & he came & put his arms around me & was hugging me.I didnt` feel comfortable with that @ all.
But i just let it happen Why do you think he did that??!!
Because i really dont` know why after i told his friend to tell him to leave me alone. & he is hugging me & stuff again What do you think!?

2007-11-07 10:01:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

Purrrbig i dont` think he is like that.
Your weird.!

2007-11-07 10:09:45 · update #1

4 answers

Purrbig's advice may have been a bit over the top, but he paves the way for an important point. That is, you have to communicate clearly your boundaries and expectations for how you will be treated. This means that telling him to leave you alone through a friend of his is about as reliable as not having told him at all. And since you "let it happen", you communicated to him (silently) that this behavior is okay. Tell him in person firmly but cordially that you don't appreciate that behavior from him and it won't be tolerated. That was probably all he was trying to accomplish with you, anyway...just see how open you were to attention from him.

2007-11-07 10:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0 0

wow! either he was dared or he really has it bad for you! dont tell his friends to make him leave you alone tell him to leave you alone other wise how can he be sure that, that is what you want?

2007-11-07 18:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

tell him personally,if he wasnt dared he is going to talk 2 u more

2007-11-07 18:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Gir 6 · 0 0

REPORT HIM TO SCHOOL OFFICIALS
HE IS GROOMING YOU , TO GET ONE
THING OFF OF YOU ..AND THAT IS SEX
I AM SORRY , BUT , THATS THE WAY I SEE THINGS .. IF HE DOES NOT STOP
THEN GET POLICE INVOLVED AND TAKE HIM TO THE MAGISTRATE FOR HARASSMENT , HE IS COMMITTING A CRIME .. !!

2007-11-07 18:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by THIS ACCOUNT CLOSED 2 · 0 0

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