theres a girl megan in my class and i've been friends with her for about 3 years now..we're friends but not best friends.i was in a room with her when we went for our school trip to ottawa and i completely saw her in a different way,a way which is bad.Everytime i offered to sit somewhere go someone do something she ignored it and said what she wanted to do and then complained to me afterwards that i was being bossy and doings things MY way. This year she's in my science class,and sometimes if i say something she'll take it so offensively that she won't talk to me for the rest of the day,and my intention weren't to make her feel bad..and when i try to talk to her she doesn't even look at me when i'm talking to her...she ignores me and does things with my other friends behind my back and this weekend she asked if i wanted to go see a movie with her...but see i don't know if i should go..she's like this most of the time but when she's not she's a really nice person
2007-11-07 08:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As you get older, you change...and so do your friends. By the time I was in high school, only one of my several friends was from when we met in elementary school. It sounds like your friend is changing in a not so good way and it just might be time to start seeking some new friends instead. After all... a friend is someone you enjoy being around and that you have fun with. She doesn't sound like much fun anymore. You certainly deserve better than that!
2007-11-07 08:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your friend, she is looking down on you, you do not need to be treated as such, The school is full of other kids just like you, Forget this girl, I say give her own treatment.
Sounds like you've made more than a small effort to be nice to her. We don't have to like everybody,but, that doesn't mean someone can talk down to us either. Go hang with some other buddies and leave this girl in the cold
2007-11-07 16:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me she is immature...you seem like a much better person than this. Friendships are really hard, especially when you are young. Sounds like to me she knows that she can walk all over you and then turn to you for your support on other things. I would not go watch a movie with her. Let her suffer when she finds out that your not going to be there at the snap of a finger. Trust me, you will look back and laugh when your older. All that crap when your young is so silly and doesn't really make you who you will be down the road!
2007-11-07 16:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by daisha929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way - a friend is someone that you like being with most of the the time, not dislike. So what if she's really nice only some of the time, don't you think you deserve better?
2007-11-07 16:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her shes being a b**** and give her some time to realize how shes acting....adn if she come up and apoligizes then forgive her....but if not....jsut move on. shes wasting your time.
2007-11-07 17:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpealt203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, maybe she is not aware her behavour is putting you off.
2007-11-07 16:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by chantelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then forget her! You don't have to put up with that
2007-11-07 16:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by mary s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋