k. im 1 of those girls who tries 2 resolve conflist w/ friends. this happened recently. so one of mi friends is in the soccer clique and mi other friend is in the girlygirl clique. they had a big arguement. i got stuck in the middle, they were telling me things behind eachothers backs.. and then the other girl would be like, "what did she say about me?" now they both want me 2 b their friend but they dont want me 2 b riends w/ both of them. Helpp!!
2007-11-08 01:34:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Best thing to do when in the middle of an argument is BACK OFF before things get ugly. Don't gossip about your friends behind their backs, it starts so many problems, and it's just not right. If you're a true friend, you won't talk bad about them. Gossiping is usually the main factor in a girl's argument.
Tell them when they're together, and say that you want to be friends with BOTH of them. And if they can't accept that, than say that you aren't going to be friends with either of them. It sounds to me that they aren't true friends, and you'll probably be better off without them. Real friends don't get you into situations like the one you are in, and they don't force you to choose who to be friends with.
I hope my advice was helpful. Good luck <333
2007-11-08 01:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Smileyy :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them, each to the other's face, maybe even in front of both together, that you wish to be both girls' friends and if they don't like it, then they will sadly both stop counting on your friendship coz they're tearing you apart. There is no reason you can't be friends with both girls.
2007-11-08 01:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by dumbuglyweirdo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm my ultimate buddies sure, yet even nonetheless i admire the girls folk I carry close out with, I wouldn't completely have faith them. It sounds terrible yet i be attentive to for a actuality that they now and returned gossip approximately one yet another. the two way is say I surely have some buddies who're the two undemanding climate buddies and a few who're like sisters to me.
2016-10-01 21:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. They have no right to tell whom you should be friends with and whom you should not. Seriously., tell them, you're not their toy.
What's the argument all about anyway?
If it doesn't make sense, then try do some 'sense talk' to them.
2007-11-08 01:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay out of other people's arguments... bow out of gossip and "he-said-she-said" conversations.... mind your own business and you won't have to worry.
2007-11-08 01:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋