There is a family in my neighborhood that appear to be the "perfect" family. The husband is attractive, intelligent, a good provider and a good Daddy. The wife is 16 years younger than he and quite a pretty. She is President of the PTA and a good Mommy. They have 2 beautiful children, an 11yo boy and a 9yo girl. They just got a puppy; and have the perfect little house, on a perfect little street, in our perfect little neighborhood. Everything seems truly "perfect" but it's not. I know for a fact that the husband been having an affair, perhaps not his first, for over a year. The wife doesn't seem to have any idea. It just breaks my heart. I don't really know her. Do I keep this information to myself? Help, I need your advice, I'm at a loss!
2007-11-07 09:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by gem20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I agree with the others. Just stay out of it. This is something that could possible ruin the friendship with you and bring them closer. Just be there for her if and when she needs you. Remember at the end of the day, he is still her husband they are legal, joined at the him. If there is gonna be any discarding you are gonna be the first. I don't mean to sound harsh but it's reality.
2007-11-07 09:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough call....It might not be your place to say anything but at the same time she should know if that is going on behind her back. I would say really think about it from the other side......if you were her and someone knew would you want to know. Hope you figure it out
2007-11-07 09:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by DREW E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may already know and chooses to ignore it to keep things "perfect"... not uncommon situation. Stay out of it. She won't thank you under any circumstances.
2007-11-07 09:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep this information to yourself unless she comes to you for your input. She may already know this info already.
2007-11-07 09:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write a letter on grid paper in block lettering [don't sign it ] and put it on ther door [wear glove so you don't lave a finger print]
2007-11-07 09:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by staples_92 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mind your own affairs, that has nothing to do with you, what so ever.
2007-11-07 09:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by good_fatrabbit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋