Friends - November 2007

im 12 and in 7th grade, if you think im young, im not. i fell really lft out all the time though...like i am a 5th wheel (even if there arent 4 other ppl) i have a lot of friends...a lot of best friends too...but i dont have a true, always there for you, practically your sister friend. i mean i do, but she lives in miami and i live in georgia.. but here , in georgia, i want a true best friend, but they all have other ppl who are their trye best friends. i feel so depressed, becuse on myspace, im not on anyones top who i claim to be one of my best friends, this girl that ive known since lastt year seems to think im boring and moved on, and this other girl...who i thought would finally be the one, ends up hnging with the popular girls more and more each day, and as each day goes on, she treats me more and more like she doesnt like me. if true friends are hard to come by, then howcome im the only one that doesnt have one?

plz, i feel like crying now, help me!!!

2007-11-01 14:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, since when i was 6 years old my parents got divorced so by the age of 7 i had to grow up really fast i had to be resposible and take care of my brother while my mom worked.I think that i started to feel depressed when i was 9 but i wasn't depressed almost all the time.But at the age oof 11 i felt alot of times depressed.well my closest friend said"i don't like u"i feel so sad i thought maybe my friends hate me too,i was so sad i was was about 2 cry in one of my classes.Since when i was 7 i stopped crying, but inside i feel so empty, alone and i wanna cry and scream but i don't but i keep stuff bottled up inside, i feel that like there's no one that i could talk 2 i have no best friend,i wanted to kill myself at the age 10 but didn't bc it would cause problems to my mom and brother.i feel useless,pathetic,alone.I don't tell my mom about how i feel. I have been thinking a little about cutting myself but i haven't done it.what should i do?I feel so alone

2007-11-01 13:46:48 · 34 answers · asked by That's a secret 3

i dont understand why do guys always want to fight.....
today boys at my class started some fight and it ended up at our park with 32 other guys who also came to fight with them...they were so violent and agressive,it was very interesting to watch but they were fighting so hard that i couldnt recognize them anymore...they werent the same persons...there were no cute guys who always joke around and walk smiled,they got anger and didnt think of anything else...

what happens with them in those situations?

2007-11-01 11:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by Bella 4

im 13 i like this hot girl in my class and i dont know how to tell her but i get scared when i ask herand i dont want everybody to know if she says no

2007-11-01 10:46:07 · 28 answers · asked by Ryan C 2

Last year I had a friend she was ok but a bit moody. some times we use to go in the pub and I took her out to a children in need night with my mum and dad and my dads brother and his wife and there son and kids. and at christmas I took her out with my mum and dad and my dads brother and his wife. And then I bought her a present for christmas and invited her for tea a few times and took her to a market. and when we was looking after my uncels farm house when he went away we took her up there for tea. And I bought her a present form my holiday. now shes the typ of person who falls out with people all the time and when shes in a mood she stays in one for a week. she now lives on her own because she then only as her self to fall out with.

2007-11-01 09:40:02 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

okay, i have a friend named jai(boy) and he acted really weird around me cuz like 2day, he hit my forehead cuz he thought i ws cheating 4 a game(whichi wasn't and no teacher caught him!) then 2day i wasn't eavesdroppind but just listening cuz there was nothing better 2 do, and i was like u really did that( he said he kicked a guy in the balls) and he was like quit listening!!! he is usually nice 2 me(so r all the other guys my grade on the bus!!) and the last thing he did was say get ur feet off the seat cuz u have a dress on!!! and dont u think he shuldnt've have cared?! if he wanted me 2 stop, why didn't he ask nicely? (he probably doesn't have a crush on me!!!) so why do u think he was actin a little mean 2 me 2day?( im also the only 5th grade grl on the bus, and all the other 5th grade guys r okay with me sittin' in the back with them...) so do u think that was a little mean, and wat do u think was wrong with him 2day?

2007-11-01 09:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was talking with a few friends of mine, we get along really well because we don't really care what other people think and we have a lot of positive energy and a great sense of humor. So as all four of us are talking about gay people (we have no shame, we talk about EVERYTHING) by BEST FRIEND comes up to my face and says: "Why the hell are you always so weird? OMG You need to STOP!" Then she walked away and left me trying not to cry. She is the most beautiful person I have ever laid eyes on and Ive been her friend ever since first grade. She's popular and bossy and smart and a real bookworm and she teases me about how ugly my spiky hair is I sent her an e-mail about what I thought about that, but I can't post it here, it's too long.
Anyways, I was just an elementary school kid when A.) I was touched inappropriately by a family member and B.) I was abused by my immediate family (Father, Mother, Brother)
I've never told anyone before, and I cut myself occasionally.
What should I do!?

2007-11-01 09:22:03 · 29 answers · asked by Erica 2

My friends and i are thinking of going to Los Angeles. We live in the bay area and it is 6 hours away. We plan on staying there friday, saturday, sunday. It's also one of my friends birthday that weekend (hopefully it helps). So if you have any ideas, please help. Thanks.

2007-11-01 09:13:43 · 33 answers · asked by thizzeemaniacs707 2

my friends and i have been friends for a really long time. all of a sudden, one of our friends got all mad and said that we leave her out. i attempted to make up with her, and we sort of did, at least we are on speaking terms now, however, my best friend is not even speaking to this girl. like not even a hello, so its very difficult for me to hang out with them both. i want them to make up because im in the middle...but im not sure if they really want to. everyone complains to me, and im sick of hearing it and im stuck in the middle. what should i do to make them talk to eachother? or should i just leave them alone??

2007-11-01 09:08:27 · 4 answers · asked by Kelly 1

Today at lunch I was eating my food and my friend came up and said if i wanted a cookie. I said sure and she gave me half of a cookie so I started to eat it. Then she starts laughing and hugs me telling me that she had dropped it on the floor. I told her i would get back at her somehow and told me she wouldnt eat anything i gave her. I want to do something innocent because it was an innocent joke [obviously] Any ideas?

2007-11-01 09:00:20 · 9 answers · asked by Eddie 3

Ok a few weeks ago one of my best friends dropped out of college and today so did another. I have 1 friend left in college and she has been saying for a while that she also is thinking of dropping out. If she leaves then I will have not a single friend left at college. What should I do?

2007-11-01 08:57:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my roommate kinda hates me, although we go party and eat and stuff sometimes. I live with four other people, and three of us kinda hang out togeather (we went out last night togeather) but I always feel like I'm not wanted there (i'm 20 and they're 24). How can I find out what he thinks of me without just going up to him and saying it?

2007-11-01 08:37:40 · 2 answers · asked by Nate 6

So, I have this co worker that is always doing inappropriate booty dances, and rubbing her bum on my desk. How do I make this stop?

2007-11-01 08:36:00 · 13 answers · asked by hot06tc 2

anyhow I have only spoke to her over the internet and once on the phone last night. Never met her or anybody else that will be there tonight. I said I would go and my husband said I should go to make new friends I have lived here for 4 years and have a couple of friends here by our home. I have a lot of other friends we don't see much because they don't like to drive that far to see us. Mind you it's only about a 15 minute drive from their homes to ours but yet they want us to drive to see them all the time. Anyhow I 'm kinda shy and amd affraid to go meet these people. Should I go or should I say I can't make it? Thanks

2007-11-01 08:35:16 · 15 answers · asked by dollbaby2407 3

i think ive asked this before, but seriously....
how can i stop caring?? because im paranoid when i walk in the hallways or in a classroom! it doesnt feel right, and i always think everyone's talking about ME!...how can i stop feeling that way? i mean, i try, but...it's hard because ive really always had to deal with people talking....how can i just learn the phrase," Screw them and keep going"?

2007-11-01 08:10:00 · 7 answers · asked by HappyState™ 4

i feel like its my fault... if i was still her friend... maybe it would not have happened

2007-11-01 08:06:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a problem i'm in the 9th grade and people are pushing me around. i ain't the best looking one here. my friends keep saying tell some one but i don't know what to do. can someone help me?

2007-11-01 08:00:37 · 3 answers · asked by kyle s 1

How can i get my freind to take his shirt off? I m really good freinds with this boy and i dont want to ruin our freind ship by asking him to take it off, so can you think of any ways i can get him to take it off, we are 15. Reasking

2007-11-01 07:56:52 · 21 answers · asked by Matt Macey 1

So, today I will be moving into an apartment with my long time friend. My roommate is currently at the apartment and I will go there after work.

Anyways, when we first viewed the model we decided that she would get the room with the bathroom inside it and I would take the other room and the hallway bathroom.

Well, our apartment is a little different than the model. The bathroom inside her bedroom is smaller and the closet is also smaller in her room where as my bathroom is bigger and so is my closet.

Now she wants my room. The agreement was that she got the room WITH the bathroom, not that she gets the room with the BIGGER bathroom. And she is also saying that all of her clothes won't fit in her closet while I have tons of books and sewing and knitting supplies that I will need to store in my closet along with my clothes.

Am I wrong to stand my ground and keep my room and bathroom? Or should I let her have my room....? Help please?! I'm leaving in an hour! :x

2007-11-01 07:19:05 · 2 answers · asked by Miss Cuddlefish 2

can someone please explain this to me.
or have a story to tell about your friend taking drugs..etc.

thanks.!

2007-11-01 07:12:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you explain talking to an old friend that is a man when you are a woman? An old classmate that I had no romantic background with talked to me after 30 years. he was a boy, now a man , who walked home from school the same way me and my friend did ( a girl). he did not flirt with us and had a girlfriend of his own. now my husband feels weird that I want to say hi. how do I explain to him that it is ok and nothing will happen?help/

2007-11-01 06:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by Ginnykitty 7

So when I was in grade like 6,7, and 8 I was friends with the popular girls, but then they turned into total bitches and I left them cause i so wasn't into that. So i got into a group of new friends and they were great, nice people. Then, I started to become friends with this one girl which is my "best friend" now. So, I was getting really close to this girl but then she got jelous of me and got mad whenever I did anything with my other friends, but she was like my best friend and i was stupid then and stoped hanging out with my other friends... anyway now I'm in grade 11 and she is my only friend, but she is becoming really mean. She'll talk about people behind their backs and they think she is so nice, and she even insults me to my face. She lies sooo much to everyone around her, and gets mad over little things like she came into class late one time and i was busy and didn't sat hi, and she got so mad at me. We both are really shy people, and now everyone already has their groups

2007-11-01 06:23:46 · 8 answers · asked by kay 3

What would you think (and how would you feel) if some random person just comes up to you, offers his hand, and introduces himself to you?

2007-11-01 04:50:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-01 03:40:44 · 9 answers · asked by Deepa 2

It happened last night (Halloween night). The car just ran over it slowly, and it popped and squelched. I actually covered my eyes when it happened becuase I can;t bear anything in real life that bad. My mate though, he laughed at the exact moment it got squashed...

Would you call him sick?

2007-11-01 03:03:51 · 18 answers · asked by vEngful.Gibb0n 3

we were about seven in our group, and th3 of us (including me) dumped the other half coz we were just sick of them. now we dont regret it, but the other half really misses us. we really really dont like them, but they keep on being freaksih with us, like randomly comming up to us and hugging us and being like 'we'll miss you', which is just plain freaky. now theyre getting real sad adn this other girl that left my school is bugging me about how we should be friends with them even though they're acting freakishly freaky and we're on the verge of hating them. does thsi make any sense? wat do i do?

2007-11-01 02:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-01 00:42:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

You've been working at a place for the last two years and became very good friends with two people in your department. The work environment sucks and you all want to leave. You are so close that you even socialize outside of the workplace, and call each other on the phone. Then one leaves to go to greener pastures and two months afterwards, the other leaves...then you realize that she has started working at the same place as the other.

Without telling me anything they helped each other, and they're still being secretive about it. I feel betrayed. It's not that they helped each other, but that they kept it a secret from me. This tells me that we were not as close as I thought we were.

How would you deal with something like this? Would you confront them and tell them how you feel or would you quietly go about your life and forget about them?

2007-11-01 00:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by Serengetti 3