my friends and i have been friends for a really long time. all of a sudden, one of our friends got all mad and said that we leave her out. i attempted to make up with her, and we sort of did, at least we are on speaking terms now, however, my best friend is not even speaking to this girl. like not even a hello, so its very difficult for me to hang out with them both. i want them to make up because im in the middle...but im not sure if they really want to. everyone complains to me, and im sick of hearing it and im stuck in the middle. what should i do to make them talk to eachother? or should i just leave them alone??
2007-11-01 09:08:27 · 4 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't govern anyone's behavior but your own, and you have done so to the extent it's possible. You don't have to leave either of them alone, but you should caution both of them against saying anything against the other one because as their friend, you don't care to hear it.....and leave it at that. They'll snap out of it over time, but you won't get hemmed up in the meantime.
2007-11-01 09:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats your friends problem not yours! Srry dont want to be mean but you need to just leave them be for a while till they make up. Ignore them both until they make up. they'll eventulaay get the idea
2007-11-01 16:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by merf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time they say something to you say "I dont want to hear it...if oyu have something to say-say it to her.." Let them know it doesnt help to tell you anything....
also tell them that its stupid that they're fighting....the one who doesn't speak to the other-tell her shes being immature...the only reason the other one got upset in the first place was because she cares about you all and wants to spend time with you....let the one who stopped talking know that its crazy immature for them to be that way....and ask them how they would feel if you stopped talking to them...or how they would feel if you left her out of everything....I've been in that position...sometimes being a ***** and telling the truth as it is and displaying their foolishness for them to see solves everything....
they are making themselves the victim when its really the other friend....let them know they aren't the ones being hurt here....
and always remember that as life moves forward, people change and sometimes you dont stay friends with the same people....so if one of them walks away form you and out of your life...understand that someone will replace them sometime....people just change...
2007-11-01 16:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by toninicole143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them both over to your house and express your disappointment with them and ask them to try to work out their problem. And let them know that the peoblem is not yours but it is affecting you.
2007-11-01 16:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by robert s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋