Please Help, Don't know what to do!?

Question

So when I was in grade like 6,7, and 8 I was friends with the popular girls, but then they turned into total bitches and I left them cause i so wasn't into that. So i got into a group of new friends and they were great, nice people. Then, I started to become friends with this one girl which is my "best friend" now. So, I was getting really close to this girl but then she got jelous of me and got mad whenever I did anything with my other friends, but she was like my best friend and i was stupid then and stoped hanging out with my other friends... anyway now I'm in grade 11 and she is my only friend, but she is becoming really mean. She'll talk about people behind their backs and they think she is so nice, and she even insults me to my face. She lies sooo much to everyone around her, and gets mad over little things like she came into class late one time and i was busy and didn't sat hi, and she got so mad at me. We both are really shy people, and now everyone already has their groups

their groups they hang out with. I want other friends now and don't know what to do cause I am really shy and quiet. Also my friend takes everything as competition, like if i get a new sweater she'll go get a new sweater and she always asks me if shes prettier and better than everyone, she is a nice person but can be a total ***** sometimes. So now iv'e liked this guy for over a year and she knows. Before she was like "why do u like him, hes not even that great looking" and now shes like acting all slutty around him, and telling me he likes her and always stares at her! I just don't know what to do, because I am really shy...

Answer 1

This girl seems to be jealous of you.... you really need to expand your horizons and find other friends... if she doesn't like it, she can go away!!

Answer 2

I'm shy too I know how you feel but if you actually where friends with the popular kids at one point you must not be all that shy because they never gave me the time of day in school when I went just teased me here and there. I'd say start talking to people in classes of yours or go out on the weekends to partys and movies places where you can meet new people. And Id talk to your friend if I where you about the way she acts towards people maybe she does not relize it and someone needs to tell her to open her eyes. If she does not care and does not change it just dump her she is doing the same thing to people that your other friends did for you to not be their friends anymore maybe she needs to be reminded of that too.

Answer 3

The girls u earlier had, all were levelled as bitches by u. now the girl to whom u termed as best friend is making u cry and u think she is mad sometimes.She insults u on yr face, she lies and so many things.U say, she is yr best friend.What is yr choice. It is u who finds such girls and make them yr best friends.and aftersome times start blemming them for some or the other reason. Ur problem is that u are not able to identify yr self , what u are and what u want.Once yr need is identified u yr self will select the one as per yr need.

Answer 4

WHOA!!!!
Girl if i were you i would totally stop talking to that b*tch, she is a total hypocrite, and sooner or later she's going to get you into some serious problems.
Plus she has very LOW self esteem, she's to bored with her life that she has to make fun of ppl just so she won't be bored.
She is not a true friend, leave her, make new friends,....don't be shy try to be out there and get noticed by more ppl as yourself, not someone you are not.
As for the guy, she's trying to get @ you, so just don't let that mess get to you otherwise she'll keep doing it. Ask him if he likes her to catch her in her own lie or not.

Answer 5

First off DITCH HER, she seems like a friend not even Satan would hang around. Next, even though your shy just start by holding small conversations with other groups just to see what they like to do, then try hanging out with the group or girls that seem to like the same things you do....Don't worry your start making new friends as long as you DITCH Her.

Answer 6

She was so insecure on you..that's the reality.

talk to her..tell her all the things that you already felt about her attitude towards you. dont be shy..besides she's your BEST FRIEND? if you still consider her as friend..and you really dont want to just give it up... the best thing to do is to have communication ...

if she still has sympathy on you and on your friendship .. I think she will put effort to bring back the old days.
But if she does not care anymore..
even if it hurts to say goodbye to the person you almost give your life to.. its better to give up the friendship rather than to know you are the only one fighting. right?

Answer 7

So, what is your point? either cut ties, or shut the F UCK up..
excuse my french, I am having a emotional uncontrolable moment..

Answer 8

try hanging out with acquantences and see what you think of them.